Anti-Bullying Week 2021 – NEW Posters to help Challenge Peer-on-Peer Abuse

As schools prepare for Anti-Bullying Week, are ALL your staff are confident when it comes to spotting and challenging inappropriate behaviours?

Are they aware of the consequences of:

And what about the wider safeguarding implications?

So to help – we’ve created 2 new posters at to get those important discussions started and create a culture where bullying is unacceptable, because picking up on things which may seem like nothing may stop them escalating into something far more serious:

What next?

  1. Watch our Anti-Bullying Week video for top tips and ideas
  2. Put up the new posters to raise awareness and start those classroom discussions
  3. Ensure students know how to report abuse through the dedicated NSPCC Report Abuse in Education helpline – find this and other reporting channels to report bullying, harmful content, extremism, child criminal and sexual exploitation at
  4. Familiarise yourself with the latest updates on bullying and peer on peer abuse from KCSIE 2021 – see our tracked changes document at
  5. Empower staff by playing the ‘Spotlight on Bullying‘ cpd video at the start of your next staff briefing
  6. Plan an assembly and age appropriate lessons from our selection of resources at – you’ll also find some great parent activities.
  7. Stay up to date with the latest developments and guidance by attending our training at

You can find lots more great ideas and resources in our curriculum blog

Ofsted’s review of sexual abuse in schools – key takeaways and tips to support your whole school approach

(once you’ve read this blog, head to to read more about Ofsted and safeguarding and the new handbook)

This month’s review makes compelling reading, advocating a zero tolerance and whole school approach – but what exactly does good practice look like and how can schools respond?

You can read the full report here but to make it easier, we’ve put together some key findings, practical tips and resources for DSLs, RSHE leads, parents, staff and governors to help safeguard young people from harm – at school, online and beyond:

Background: In April, Ofsted carried out a review of sexual abuse in response to thousands of testimonials on the ‘Everyone’s Invited’ website from young people describing sexual abuse by peers. As well as exploring the curriculum and victim voice, the review looked at reporting and safeguarding arrangements, bringing to light significant insights and concerns.

Here’s what you need to know:

  1. Sexual harassment and online abuse are prevalent “For some children, incidents are so commonplace that they see no point in reporting them.” Girls reported that the pressure to send nude pictures (‘nudes’) is far more widespread than adults realise – some students even consider harmful sexual behaviours normal due to their frequency. Nearly 90% of girls, and 50% of boys said being sent explicit pictures or videos happens a lot or sometimes, whilst 92% of girls, and 74% of boys admitted the same sexist name-calling. Reasons given for professionals underestimating the scale and prevalence of online sexual abuse include a lack of awareness or perception that sexual harassment and sexualised language are problematic.
  2. Significant barriers to disclosure – “One governor reported that ‘blokeish banter’ was just part of growing up.” Girls are particularly reluctant to talk about sexual abuse, fearing reputational damage or being branded a ‘snitch’, whilst many students felt embarrassed talking to someone from a different generation about sex. Some felt that teachers were willing to condone sexualised name-calling and harassment, several fearing they would not be believed or be blamed, and that the process would get out of their control.
  3. Language matters: “Current guidance does not clearly reflect the language that children and young people use, particularly for online sexual abuse.” E.g ‘Keeping Children Safe in Education’ uses the term ‘sexting’ which is outdated as young people refer to it as sending ‘nudes’ Students also revealed that homophobic and sexualised language like ‘slag’ and ‘slut’ were commonplace, but felt staff were often unaware, dismissing it as ‘banter’ and not prepared to challenge it – some children themselves perceived the use of derogatory language as ‘banter’ or ‘just a joke’ and were subsequently wary of challenging their peers.
  4. What about the RSHE/PSHE curriculum? “Children and young people were rarely positive about the RSHE they had received. They felt that it was too little, too late.” Whilst many students felt that the curriculum did not reflect the reality, staff generally lacked confidence to deliver the new curriculum, including the ‘online’ element. Key issues included weak implementation and a lack of subject knowledge on topics like consent, healthy relationships and sharing of sexual images.
  5. Ofsted Recommendations: The review recommends a zero-tolerance culture, whereby schools “act as though sexual harassment and online sexual abuse are happening, even when there are no specific reports, and put in place a whole school approach” through a carefully sequenced RSHE curriculum with time for discussion of topics such as consent and online behaviour, high quality training for teachers delivering RSHE, support for DSLs, awareness training for all staff and relevant governors and multi-agency collaboration

How we can help – tips and resources to support your whole school approach:

  1. For RSHE/PSHE leads:
    • visit for age-appropriate, cross-curricular resources covering healthy relationships, consent and sharing ‘nudes’ –  you can filter by key stage, audience and topic e.g. bullying, pornography, sexting, apps, gaming, body image etc..
    • ask pupils to take the RSHE Online Safety Quiz at
    • for guidance on whole-school delivery and mapping resources to your existing curriculum, sign up for FREE Online Safety Goes Whole School – to RSHE & Beyond training
  2. For DSLs:
    • Reinforce key safeguarding messages at your next staff cpd/briefing with our ready-to use 5-minute spotlight activities on topics from using appropriate language and victim-blaming to online sharing, snitching and overlooking banter at  
    • Visit for resources to support students and parents on child sexual exploitation and online sexual abuse
  3. For Parents – our one-stop ParentSafe website offers parents/carers support and advice including:
    • the new Home Truths video from the Internet Watch Foundation to raise awareness of how 11-13 year old girls are most at risk of being tricked into taking nude images in their own bedrooms, and their TALK campaign for tips on talking to your child
    • Childnet’s I want to tell you video on what children might want to tell you but don’t know how
    • Find these and other tips on topics from bullying and sharing online content to pornography at – and don’t forget to share the link via your parent newsletters, website and communications
  4. Reporting and disclosures:
    • Are you students aware of the new:
    • We’ve also created a pupil audit to encourage pupil disclosures and staff poster to facilitate referrals at
  5. ALL staff and governors:

Hope this has been helpful in shaping your response, building staff confidence and promoting effective practice and procedures across your school community – we’d love to hear your feedback and do let us know if you need anything else!

Survey to facilitate disclosures

This post is an update of our previous ‘safepostlockdown’ flyer to make it relevant and applicable for any time of year, especially after a holiday period. Find it again alongside other posters at

Click the image below to download and save or print…or use this Google form version instead (only on a school G Suite account – don’t use a personal account).

Have your pupils/students thrived and stayed safe during the past year of lockdowns and/or during the most recent holidays? Is there anything they need to disclose? Or issues that will affect their mental health or learning at school? Are you sure? Take the opportunity to find out how safe and happy they are and were at school and at home.

Click me to download – don’t print this image as it’s lower resolution

Either click the poster to download get a high-res version to print or share, or for G Suite users, here is a Google form version (it makes a copy to your domain so we don’t see any data, but only do it if you are logged into your school G Suite, not a personal account).

Please check with your DSL (if that’s not you) before you use the survey and be sure you know how you will handle disclosures in line with school policy (good time to remind staff, students and parents?). And remember children and young people haven’t had the same opportunities to reach out for help during the past year, so why not give it a try!

We’d love to hear your feedback on this. Email us or Tweet or Facebook us. Find this page again via the posters at

Ofsted Handbook Updates – see more at

“If inspectors cannot corroborate safeguarding evidence by talking to pupils, safeguarding will be judged ineffective.”

The quote above is one of the key Ofsted updates in relation to safeguarding. Here is a summary of the latest changes (go to for more on Ofsted and safeguarding – you will find this text plus videos of a headteacher talking about his safeguarding inspection, and we will be adding new elements in future around the existing requirements and a more comprehensive overview of the Ofsted Handbooks and Education Inspection Framework).

Are they coming?

Whilst most inspections before the summer holidays will be short inspections for those previously graded ‘inadequate’ and ‘requires improvement’, Ofsted may now also visit any ‘good’ school outside the 5-year window or indeed any school where safeguarding concerns have been flagged or noticed. Ofsted also reserves the right to convert short (S5) inspections to full (S8) ones.

So what are the updates?

School Inspection Handbook

There is a new section on returning to inspections post-Covid, which includes examination of the school’s approach to remote education. Whilst curriculum is of course key, are you ready to talk about how you kept everyone safe with policy and in practice (check out for our top tips in this area). Special mention is made of how those with SEND were kept safe during Covid and remote learning, given their needs and increased vulnerability to risk.

Further examination of the Covid period will include how schools continued to provide for vulnerable students and how safeguarding procedures were maintained and evolved to remain effective – how did you ensure reporting and disclosure mechanisms were maintained and nothing could fall through the gaps, both for those at home and in school?

A new paragraph was also added that highlights the importance of pupils and students understanding safeguarding and reporting procedures and feeling safe, not to mention policy being translated into practice.

“If inspectors cannot corroborate the evidence that they gather about the effectiveness of the school’s arrangements to safeguard pupils, by talking to pupils on inspection, then safeguarding will likely be judged ineffective.”

The quote above is self-explanatory but it is explained in full in a new document Inspectors talking to pupils on inspection, which highlights the importance of schools not blocking inspectors or young people from speaking to each other.

The handbook updates also include mention of how safeguarding is approached within the curriculum via RSHE (Relationships, Sex & Health Education). Whilst schools were given some flexibility, Ofsted will expect to see evidence of RSHE being taught this year and a rationale for any given approach, plus gaps identified, parents consulted and a policy published.

What about the S8 Handbook and EIF?

The changes above are from the main (Section 5) Handbook. The Section 8 Handbook has not seen significant changes regarding safeguarding but refers to the new Section 5 handbook changes, hence these remain key for any kind of inspection. The EIF (Education Inspection Framework) has only been changed to refer to handbook changes and to explain covid-secure inspections.

Further reading

Here are links to some of the key Ofsted pages and documents:

Safe Post-Lockdown

This flyer has been updated to work at any time of year. We suggest you leave this page and visit instead

Have your pupils/students thrived and stayed safe during the latest lockdown? Is there anything they need to disclose? Or issues that will affect their mental health or learning at school? Are you sure? As school buildings begin to welcome those back who haven’t been in for months, take the opportunity to find out how safe and happy they were in lockdown.

Click me to download – don’t print this image as it’s lower resolution

Either click the poster to download get a high-res version to print or share, or for G Suite users, here is a Google form version (it makes a copy to your domain so we don’t see any data, but only do it if you are logged into your school G Suite, not a personal account).

Please check with your DSL (if that’s not you) before you use the survey and be sure you know how you will handle disclosures in line with school policy (good time to remind staff, students and parents?). And remember children and young people haven’t had the same opportunities to reach out for help during lockdown, so why not give it a try!

We’d love to hear your feedback on this. Email us or Tweet or Facebook us. Find this page again at

Live video sessions for parents: keeping your children safe

This year we ran not one but three online safety sessions for parents so schools didn’t have to. They were all dropins on Facebook Live and you can watch them again on our Facebook feed or below. Each one had special guests and looked at topics from parental control settings to child sexual exploitation, radicalisation, bullying and youth violence and gangs. Watch again below and check out all the links to the resources we talked about. ⤵

Children spent much more time on devices in 2020 – for schoolwork, online tutoring or during leisure time – so take the opportunity to provide parents with top tips and advice.

#1 PARENTS keep your children safe online this Christmas

See bottom of this blurb for the links we shared ⬇⬇ With special guest Ghislaine from Internet Matters Join us live on Wednesdays in December for a whistlestop tour of new devices for Christmas, things to watch out for and everything a parent could need to keep children safe online and beyond… Today we saw (in order): Tutors – Zoom settings - Digital 5 A Day – Parents Top Tips Poster –

Parental Controls
Smart toys for children that parents will also love
Top video games that children want to play this Christmas
Connecting and sharing online guide for SEND CYP
Online pornography advice hub Don’t get undressed campaign – NSPCC apps site – Apps about apps and handy apps – Two story books: and The Online Zoo – Get help / report at: And see us also on

Posted by LGfL DigiSafe on Wednesday, 9 December 2020
#2 PARENTS keep your children safe online this Christmas

LINKS AT THE BOTTOM OF THE BLURB ⤵ In the 2nd of our 3 live sessions for parents to help keep children safe at Christmas we had special guests Parent Zone and The Marie Collins Foundation join us. Catch the previous session and sign up for the next at LINKS: The links in the recap at the start are with the previous video (e.g. parental controls, tutors, zoom settings, apps) here:

Then the ones we looked at in more detail today were: iPhone Poster Top Tips Poster – Marie Collins Foundation poster for parents – More about the MCF: Undressed video to show to children – Get help from:
Other ACT Early links
Fake News links Find out about Parentzone: (subscribe to the newsletter!) Ollee app – Be Internet Legends videos

Posted by LGfL DigiSafe on Wednesday, 16 December 2020
#3 PARENTS keep your children safe online this Christmas

(all web links shared are at the bottom of this blurb ⤵⤵) #3 PARENTS keep your children safe online this Christmas – final 3rd session with guests Click CEOP (National Crime Agency) on child sexual exploitation and Unique Talent ( on gangs and youth violence We held three live sessions on Wednesdays in December for a whistlestop tour of staying safe at Christmas, things to watch out for and everything a parent could need to keep children safe online and beyond… This week’s links: – Quick recap of lots from Week 1 w guest Internet Matters – all those links are attached to vid 1 here

– Quick recap of lots from Week 2 w Parent Zone and The Marie Collins Foundation – and all those links are with vid 2 here
– New Online Harms legislation: — — — – CEOP links — — — — — – LGFL Undressed video – – Unique Talent: — — — Advice line for parents/families impacted by gangs and knife crime 02034795344 – Reporting — — UT line on gangs and knife crime 02034795344 — — (for over 13s)

Posted by LGfL DigiSafe on Wednesday, 23 December 2020

What goes on in Nativity, stays in Nativity…🎄🎅even in 2021!

How to host a safe online Christmas school performance in 2021!

At this time of year, schools are always considering how to run Christmas performances safely, whether in terms of photo & filming permissions, fitting people in the hall (or socially distancing them if they are allowed back in at all), working out how to include children who mustn’t be photographed to keep them safe, stopping parents sharing images of other children, and so on.

If you are still online this year (or even hybrid with a bit of both!), what do you need to know?

You may arrive at this page having already read the poster below, but if not read that first (click the image ⤵ to download a full-sized print version), then read on for more below.

As there are quite a few permutations depending on which system you are using, whether hybrid or online only, prerecord of live, or using logins or private link, we suggest you consider the advice above and below (especially regarding settings) and send parents reminders about the following issues when you send them the link.

  • If they need to log in to a particular platform for a live performance, tell them how to practice/log in before the day, and remind them not to share links or logins outside the family
  • Tell them how long it will be available for and remind them why they must not share images of any children except their own (not just GDPR and respect for others’ privacy but also some looked-after children could be put at danger if identified online)
  • Ask them not to attempt their own recordings (maybe you can publish an edited version or selected photos after the event for parents to keep?)
  • If you are allowing comments/live chat (normally not necessary or a good idea, even if you have moderation on), remind them only to post positive comments and no more than one or two (it’s easy to get carried away)
  • Even though you will check the settings to not allow private messaging, uploads or screen sharing, it may be wise to advise that this is not allowed

But what system are you going to use?

You will have already practiced this last year and maybe for several other events since, so you may be well rehearsed, but remember settings change all the time, so check the latest advice for the relevant system and remember a live event is different to a lesson.

Microsoft Office 365

If you use Office 365 in your school and want to do the event LIVE, you could either run a normal Teams meeting (check your safety settings first) or you could run a ‘Teams Live Event’. Your administrator would need to allow staff to stream (not pupils!), then you can set up an event in the teams calendar using the arrow next to meeting and as part of the setup process choose whether it is public or only for logged in users.

For a pre-recorded event, you can upload it to OneDrive and share it privately for school users (parents and children can log in together to watch it together) or publicly if it is safe to do so.

G Suite (now Google Workspace) v YouTube

If you use G Suite/Google Workspace, there is a livestream option but only for schools which have paid for G Suite Enterprise for Education (previously available to all during the first lockdown but now only for paid users). If you have this version, it is only available to logged in users of your domain so it’s nice and secure.

Otherwise, as most schools use the free version, if you are doing a live event you may choose to use YouTube. If you opt to make it publicly available for anybody to see, be sure to turn off comments (tick box when you schedule or start the stream) or moderate them. The more restricted options can be seen in the image here. Unlisted is just a private link but could easily be shared for anyone to watch if you are happy with that. If you want to limit it to student logins, select private, click share privately and tick the tick box that will then appear to show it to users of your school domain. YouTube chat is probably not a good idea but if you opt to use it, here’s how to moderate chat.

For a pre-recorded event, the same options apply, or simply upload it to Google Drive or Google Classroom for parents and children to watch together.

Remember whatever you do, to do a test run with a few users, and test in incognito tabs (which aren’t logged in) to be sure who can see and do what.


There are education accounts for Zoom and some schools which otherwise use Teams or Google Workspace still use Zoom for parent events, so just be aware of the advice in the poster if so – make sure you enable waiting room and know who is trying to get in before you let them in (get them to show their camera at the start and show a proper name) and use the security settings (click the shield icon if you are the host) to turn of screen sharing for participants and lock down the controls to avoid screen sharing and the like. If you have a pro licence you could do a zoom webinar which has the most control.


It all sounds complicated, but hopefully it isn’t as bad as it seems; the safeguarding considerations are as usual certainly worth the effort. We hope you have a wonderful Christmas time and perhaps manage to get more pupils and parents taking part in your Christmas productions than usual. Hopefully these tips will help – let us know what else you need.

PS – for general guidance on remote-learning platforms for teaching & learning, remember our guidance at

How Netsweeper and LGfL Keep Children Safe Online

Netsweeper is the web filter and AI engine behind LGfL’s WebScreen and HomeProtect so we asked them to come and tell you a bit more about the partnership and what they get up to.

Guest post by Stewart Wright, Senior Manager, Marketing and Communications at Netsweeper

The COVID-19 pandemic has exposed how critical remote learning is for education and how students are facing increasing exposure to safeguarding risks.

Children are facing many changes and challenges from their regular routine. As schools, parks, recreational facilities and more become altered or remain closed because of COVID-19, students are feeling increasingly isolated and anxious.

There has also been a significant rise in the number of human traffickers and predators looking to exploit children online. With anti-trafficking organizations and charities struggling to survive and support victims, online safety has never been more of a necessity.

“There’s a lot of challenges on the internet — social media, online bullying, extreme content and much more. This type of content is affecting the mental health of our children.”

Perry Roach, Netsweeper CEO

How Does Netsweeper Protect Students Online?

At the core of Netsweeper’s technology is an ‘Artificial Intelligence Engine’ that has been developed to scan and categorise the content posted on new web pages when seen by anyone filtered by a Netsweeper solution, globally.

As new pages are scanned, this AI engine will determine which category the content falls under and will then link the URL with the appropriate categorization information back to Netsweeper’s network of global Category Naming Servers (CNS). This process takes seconds to perform.

As a result, appropriate allow-deny decisions can be made in ‘near real-time’ despite the web page having never been reviewed before. With millions of web pages being posted each day, this artificial intelligence engine has the capacity to keep pace with the massive growth of the internet and its content. As a result of this industry leading technology, Netsweeper has accrued and strategically categorised billions of URLs.

Netsweeper currently provides multilingual support in 46 languages and has categories that help schools protect and educate their students (for example, Extreme, Hate Speech, Criminal Skills, Weapons are categories that help monitor radical influences on students).

Find out more about WebScreen and HomeProtect.

Your Toolkit for Anti-Bullying Week 2020… and Beyond!

This year’s Anti-Bullying week runs from 16th-20th November. It’s a great opportunity to ensure you have everything in place to address bullying in line with Ofsted and the new RSHE guidance – so follow our 3 simple steps below and you’re ready to go.

STEP 1 – ASSESS YOUR POLICY & PRACTICE: To identify gaps, you will need to know whether pupils feel safe, if there are any barriers to reporting, how effective procedures are and if wider policies are up-to-date and joined up.

Top Tip Start your next staff briefing with our 5 minute cpd Spotlight on Bullying video with stimulus/discussion questions to help:

Bullying – do we take the small things seriously enough?
Picking up on things which ‘might be nothing’, may stop them escalating. What do we teach about online sharing, banter and snitching?

STEP 2 – REVIEW YOUR CURRICULUM: Your policies should be supported by a broad, holistic and progressive curriculum. So we’ve collated age-appropriate resources by us, the Anti-Bullying Alliance and other leading organisations for you to use across subjects, in assemblies and circle time.

Top TipAssess pupil understanding with our RSHE Online Safety Quiz:

Bullying and online safety scenarios plus feedback to promote class discussion

STEP 3 – COMMUNICATE WITH PARENTS & CARERS: Do they know what to do if they have a concern? Visit for great ideas to raise awareness around bullying and healthy online relationships.

Top TipWhy not run a parent session and show the new Bedtime Stories Chapter Two videos?

Aimed at protecting children from cyberbullying and harmful online content, these powerful videos alert parents/carers to the types of things they could be experiencing online.

Happy planning – Remember this is NOT just about Anti-Bullying Week

  • The new RSHE curriculum advocates pupils are taught about respectful behaviour, the effects of online actions, and how to respond/seek help
  • Ofsted will evaluate the extent to which “leaders, teachers and learners create an environment where bullying, peer-on-peer abuse or discrimination are not tolerated…  staff deal with issues quickly and effectively.”

If you need further support, LGfL’s DigiSafe team are running online training FREE for all schools:

Each of us deserves the freedom to pursue our own version of happiness. No one deserves to be bullied” – Barack Obama

Online Tutors – Keeping Children Safe

Guidance for Parents & Carers

Every year, private tutors help children catch up with missed work or address area they are struggling in, or with extra-curricular activities. Lockdown has led to major growth in this area, especially online, and this is expected to continue with further bubble and school closures.

A tutor might be employed by a school, the government National Tutoring Programme, or parents searching online or taking recommendations. But anyone can become a tutor, so what do you need to do so your children can learn and stay safe?

We have put together this poster to help parents and carers know what they can do, ask and check to keep their children safe against a background of rising online abuse during lockdown. Parents may have justified concerns and feel ill-equipped to check, but with a few simple steps, they can play an important role and have peace of mind.

Download the poster by clicking on the link and feel free to share it widely to equip and empower parents and carers to help keep children safe as they learn online.

NB for schools – much of this information is also covered in our template policies and AUPs for all school community stakeholders. You can download and adapt these from

Online Safety – ready for RSHE?

As schools prepare for statutory RSHE this September, where and how does online safety fit in and what can you do to prepare?

Whilst traditionally a topic reserved for the computing curriculum, it’s worth noting that the new RSHE curriculum guidance has 66 mentions of staying safe online threaded through all the key topics included in this new statutory subject. With young people spending increasing amounts of time online and on devices, particularly during Covid-19, it’s reassuring that this new curriculum advocates a whole school, cross-curricular approach, ensuring pupils are taught consistently and in an age-appropriate way about:

  • what positive, healthy and respectful online relationships look like
  • effects of their online actions
  • how to recognise and display respectful behaviour online
  • how to respond and seek help

What exactly do staff need to know?

As you are aware, ‘Keeping Children Safe in Education’  has just been updated – paragraph 92 has an addition about keeping children safe online “including when they are online at home”. Much of this is about education and support for parents – see for resources, presentations, letter templates, and how-to-guides. Schools must also keep ALL other staff up to date with developments around safeguarding, including:

  • Teaching online safety in school’ (DfE, June 2019) – guidance to consider what schools already deliver through the curriculum, and building in additional teaching as required by identifying online risks/harms with examples, descriptions and areas in the curriculum where these can be covered
  • Education for a Connected World’ (updated July 2020) – an ideal framework for teachers to address online safety in an age appropriate way, relevant to pupils. Listen to our audio update to find out more about how this ties in with the new RSHE curriculum as well as recent updates including social influencers and deepfakes, the use of banter, digital consent, sexting and more.

Resources and support to help you get started:

  1. Why not use our RSHE online safety quiz to assess pupils and promote helpful class discussions?
  2. Attend our ONLINE training covering the above guidance and legislation, introducing age-appropriate resources with time to map these to your existing curriculum. FREE for LGfL schools, find out more at
  3. Visit for targeted support during Covid for parents, pupils, DSLs and all staff, including guidance and support related to remote learning.

Sun, sea…policy

Just a quick blog post to share that it’s not just the sun making today exciting. All our policies have been updated for September and are live now at – they are free and open access for the benefit of all schools, so spread the word. There is the main online-safety policy to go with or in your main safeguarding policy, plus AUPs for parents, pupils in different key stages and a symbolised one, as well as ones for staff, governors, contractors, social media and more.

Have a look as you redraft and update policies for September in the light of the new KCSIE and more remote teaching to come in case of future bubble or school closures (plus of course individual isolation and quarantine). Make sure to do it all safely and let best-practice drive your policy, to in turn drive your practice.

Download now from

Education for a Connected World – 2020 audio update

Whats new, what’s changed, and how can you use the updated framework to help keep children safe in our ever-changing digital world?

Additions such as voice-activated searching, upskirting, social influencers and deepfakes, plus the use of banter and a more in-depth focus on digital consent, sexting-related technology and protected characteristics make Education for a Connected World – 2020 the ideal framework to use for your online-safety curriculum and whole-school approach.

Rather than write more about it, we met up for a chat with one of the authors to find out what it’s all about, what’s changed in the new edition and how it ties in with the new statutory RSHE curriculum.

So why not have a listen to Mubina in conversation with Penny Patterson from Havering School Improvement Services, sits on the UKCIS (UK Council for Internet Safety) Education Working Group with us. Penny was one of many experts who contributed to both this and the previous versions; she has been a longstanding friend of LGfL (and safeguarding board stalwart).

And then for further support on the same subject:

  • Training (for LGfL schools) to prepare for the online elements of RSHE – we examine all aspects of online safety from the framework and latest guidance, provide an overview of resources, and prepare you to map these to your curriculum:
  • Online resources (for all schools) to support a whole school approach – search by topic, key stage and audience at
  • Policy guidance –

Safe Summer 2020?

Have your pupils thrived and stayed safe online during lockdown? Has the extra time on devices gone swimmingly? Are you sure?

If so, great, but in some areas schools have probed and uncovered key safeguarding incidents which needed addressing. So we made this quick survey to give to pupils, giving them a chance to disclose issues before the holidays.

There are two versions:

Please check with your DSL (if that’s not you) before you use the survey and be sure you know how you will handle disclosures in line with school policy (good time to remind staff, students and parents?). And remember children and young people haven’t had the same opportunities to reach out for help during lockdown, so why not give it a try!

If you are sending it home, you might want to combine with one of these two documents we created and posted about recently:

Keeping Children Safe in Education 2020

KCSIE 2020 has arrived! The new version of the DfE’s statutory safeguarding guidance will become statutory in September, so here’s a quick post to help DSLs with their preparations.

There’s no alternative to reading it cover to cover, but we have made you a tracked changes document comparing 2019 and 2020, with substantive changes highlighted in yellow. That means you can quickly scroll through page by page to see at a glance the changes which are most likely to affect you.

Download our new document here to see these changes at a glance.

Remember that KCSIE itself always has the final appendix at the back to show where changes have been made, so check that when you read the original on (you will need scroll down the page as the new version doesn’t come into force until September).

The DfE has stressed that changes have only been made where legislation requires it, or to provide needed clarifications or extra information.

You must look at all the changes, but a few that stood out to us were:

  • Covid and mental health form the bulk of the new information/ clarification sections.
  • Lots of new mentions of supply teachers throughout the document. Make sure your obligations are met when it comes to supply staff (e.g. allegations / SCR).
  • Addition of a ‘terrorism’ definition in a slightly expanded Prevent section.
    • Don’t forget to help you with this area, we recently released a Counter-Extremism staff CPD resource focusing on the far right, and we also have face-to-face (currently online) Prevent training LGfL schools can attend. Event more self-service materials are at
  • Do your DSLs understand how social care functions? There is now specific mention of this in the training section.
  • The online safety paragraph 92 has an addition about keeping children safe online “including when they are online at home”.
    • Lots of that will be about education and support for parents and families (see for some resources there).
    • In this context you may also want to think about technologoy, especially for vulnerable students, e.g. monitoring on devices (coming soon from LGfL; available now from many other providers), and now why not check out at LGfL’s new Bridge the Divide project for low-cost devices in the home and HomeProtect for 4G devices and filtering for vulnerable pupils at home.

If you want to watch a video summary of the changes, Andrew Hall has made this 20 minute video overview of the new guidance. And if you would like to focus on the online safety aspects, Rebecca Avery from the Education People (formerly Kent CC) has made a document doing just that which you can get to via her blog here.

Letter to parents about being a good friend and staying safe online

In response to requests from schools, here is a letter template you can use or adapt to send to parents, outlining a few principles that teachers and parents can remind children about while they are spending more time online, including friendship and bullying, sharing scary things and getting undressed.

Download the letter in word format from this link; alternatively, the text of the letter is pasted below.

Dear parents,

Staying safe and being a good friend on apps, sites and games

Children and young people have spent much more time on devices than ever before during lockdown, so as we approach the summer holidays, here is some information about staying safe online and principles you can help us remind your children about.

There is a handy fridge flyer to help parents at which you may want to print out and keep.

Please do not worry too much about screen time – think instead about screen quality, balance and mental health. The Children’s Commissioner has provided a framework called the ‘Digital Five a Day’ with five things to think about each day to help put that into practice. [ the downloadable word file includes an image of this ]

It is really important children get the opportunity to chat to friends, so it’s great to hear that many of them have been chatting online during lockdown. We are sure that this will continue over the summer, so please help us reinforce some key messages about appropriate behaviour to keep everyone safe and happy.

[ edit as appropriate whether your school / local area or not ]­­

There have been reports of children being upset by bullying on chat apps, as well as  some very distressing images being shared between friendship groups. This can usually be avoided if we remind children and young people to look out for their friends, not say anything that they wouldn’t like to hear themselves, and always stop or stand up for others if someone gets upset.

Please remind your children never to share scary or rude images, even to complain about them. If they do see something that worries them or that might be wrong, all they need to do is ask for help from a trusted adult. They could talk to you or to us, or they may feel more comfortable talking anonymously to Childline. If you or they are concerned about an adult’s behaviour towards a child online, report them to CEOP. And as a parent, you can also contact the NSPCC – O2 advice line on 0808 800 5002.

One more thing – this may sound like more relevant to older children, but the very youngest children need reminding not to get undressed or changed online. There’s a fun song to get this message across at (plus background information for you).

Thank you for your support – do let us know if you have any questions.



Top Tips and Ideas for Parents to Keep Children Safe Online during Covid School Closures

This blogpost is specially aimed at Parents and Carers to support their children during these challenging times – do please share it with via your social media and communication channels.

Your children are bound to spend lots more time online and on devices at the moment. DON’T FEEL BAD ABOUT IT – lots will be schoolwork or chatting with friends – so to help them stay safe, healthy and happy, we’ve created a parent fridge-friendly A4 poster of top tips for you. Check out the video below to find out more:

What else can I do?

  1. Why not put the poster up on your fridge or notice board?
  2. Download our DigiSafe Daily worksheets (available every day during term time) for simple, child-friendly fun quizzes and a daily top tip to share with them at
  3. Show them our new catchy song to sing along to, with animation, colouring sheets and a poster at
  4. Make story time productive and fun to get those messages across:
  • Online Zoo is great to get young children to think about online risks in a playful, age-appropriate way. Follow Ape Moritz who is addicted to his Smartphone, Panda bear Paul who is being bullied and more
  • #Goldilocks: A fairytale for the digital age is a modern tale by Vodafone to help parents discuss online safety with young children & the consequences of being unkind, getting carried away with selfies, or oversharing images

And remember you don’t need to be an expert. Just keep those coversations going, and if you’re not sure about anything, there is plenty of help online for parents. Follow us @LGfLDigiSafe on Twitter or Facebook where we regularly share updates and resources.

Stay safe and well!

Age-appropriate design code

We are thrilled that the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO) has published its final Age Appropriate Design Code. What does this mean for you and the safety of children online? This ground-breaking piece of regulation is the result of lengthy consultation between the ICO and key stakeholders including our DigiSafe team at LGfL, and heralds a momentous step towards safeguarding young people’s experience in the digital world.

Aimed at online services that are likely to be accessed by children – e.g. social media platforms, content streaming services, online games, apps, devices, search engines and other websites – it places the responsibility on industry to prevent children’s data being exploited in ways that undermine their safety and wellbeing. The term ‘likely’ in bold above is very significant because this means the code isn’t just aimed at providers which would admit that their services are ‘designed for’ or ‘aimed at’ children, so the scope is much wider!

What does the code say?

The Age Appropriate Design Code outlines a set of 15 robust standards that these online service providers should meet. You can read the standards here, but in summary:

  • the child’s best interests should be of primary consideration when planning or designing online services
  • settings must be “high privacy” by default
  • geolocation settings that allow a child’s location to be shared should be switched off by default
  • ‘nudge’ behaviour encouraging children to reduce or switch off their privacy settings should not be deployed
  • services should provide an obvious sign to the child when they are being monitored by parental controls
  • options which use profiling should be switched ‘off’ by default 
  • personal data collection from children should be kept to a minimum and only where there is a compelling reason
  • there is detailed guidance on the approach to be taken for users of different ages.

Regulation and enforcement:

It is encouraging that the Code defines children as under the age of 18 – this is higher than existing UK data protection law where there is only a 13-year-age limit for children to legally give consent to being tracked online. Additionally, the regulator has powers to take action for any breach of the Code – Baroness Kidron, who introduced the Code into UK legislation said:

“An online service must say what they do, do what they say or be held accountable – in this case they face fines of up to 4 percent of their turnover, which could mean billions for the largest tech companies. If you say you don’t host violent, harmful or suicide promoting material, then you must not, or face enforcement action.”

What next?

Share these developments with your staff and parents, but remind them that whilst the Code provides greater confidence that their children can safely learn, explore and play online, it can never replace parental supervision, communication, education and guidance.

Why not attend our Online Safety Training featuring CEOP ThinkUKnow to promote online safety as part of your whole school approach – free for LGfL schools – and take a look at our age-appropriate resources, suitable for teachers, senior leaders, parents and carers at


Parents keep your children safe online and on devices and games this Christmas

Below are the links from our Facebook Live session for parents on 16/12/2019 to help parents keep children safe at Christmas online and on new devices. Doesn’t matter if you miss it – you can watch again (and share it) as soon as the event is finished on Facebook via the same link.

Roblox video for parents with LGfL and Laura from Roblox on settings, controls and ‘What is Roblox?’

The Roblox links she mentioned were this section on their website for parents and this Facebook group

Internet Matters parental control settings guides (for devices, platforms, social media, etc)

Similar parent settings guides from Common Sense Media ( with more narrative text and also monitoring and control apps)

The two X Box links we saw (IM / CSM)

Snapchat safety centre / pdf parent guide

Statistics poster – why it’s worth having ‘that chat’

Internet Matters ipad app

NSPCC O2 Parents v Kids quiz app

Will Ferrel video

When I grow up I want to be an iphone poster

BBC Own It app …and site… and Kids Explain series

Age raings on games / PEGI

CEOP’s Nude Selfies videos

Netaware from NSPCC for finding out about apps

The Good App Guide

Real books to show: Online Zoo and Goldilocks

Talking to children about terrorism

Jessie & Friends video (funny feeling in my tummy)


Undressed poster campaign

Pornography guides (talking to children about porn)

Screentime links/guides

Sharenting video from the BBC (do you sharent?)


General online safety advice helpline from the NSPCC/O2 online here or on 0808 800 5002

 If you’re worried about a police matter, call the police

If it’s an adult approaching a child online then CEOP from the National Crime Agency is what you need.

Supporting children after the London Bridge attack

The London Bridge attack will leave many adults worried about their safety, so how can schools and parents support children as they process information that even adults struggle with? Detailed and widespread coverage means it is highly likely children will see, hear or read age-inappropriate news. Here are some useful links, followed by a short article.



Over the coming weeks and months you may want to re-evaluate your Prevent provision. For this you may find our Implement Prevent resource useful, alongside the Trust Me, the LGfL/Childnet critical-thinking online resource for the classroom. We are currently working on updating our 2015 resource LGfL resource ‘Counter-Extremism: narratives and conversations’ but this still has much useful information for staff CPD.



Arguments about what children should or should not know about, and what they should be protected from hearing, are important and worthy of more consideration than we can give them here. Most people would agree that there should be some limits to children’s exposure to bad news, at least in terms of language used and details given. But sometimes it happens nonetheless, and the debate quickly becomes irrelevant. This is often the case with an event as serious as a terrorist attack, where children may be caught up in the events themselves. Even if not, they are highly likely to see, hear or read about what happened in non-child-friendly terms. Once that Rubicon has been crossed, what can we do to help?


Pretending that nothing has happened is often no longer an option, and parents and teachers will often need to provide support to process something that is incomprehensible. Those working with young people should be honest in answering the questions they are asked, explain that anxiety and worry are normal emotions, reassure pupils and let them know they are safe, and frame answers to their questions based on their prior knowledge (don’t go into too much detail that maybe they didn’t already know).


But how will we know that those in our care are worrying about something if they don’t tell us, and we don’t know that they know? This might be the case if they saw something online, for example. There are no easy answers, but the same principles apply to encouraging them to speak about bullying, child sexual exploitation, inappropriate imagery and most other online-safety issues. We need to be constantly developing an atmosphere where it is safe to talk about what you have done (or seen or heard) online without risk of being told off, or worse… having your devices taken away from you! Only then can we help young people to open up when they need to.


If we have laid those foundations carefully, then we can use the time after a terrorist attack or a death of a teacher or pupil to talk in more general terms about our fears and worries, or about what we see online, without asking leading questions that might prompt worries that weren’t already there. You will in the coming months perhaps wish to revisit your Prevent policy and strategy. But this week, focus more on supporting children and young people and being ready to talk and support them with general discussions on the things that we see online. Or talk about critical thinking or fake fews and how we react to exaggeration or scaremongering.


We can’t wrap children and young people in cotton wool, and life rarely follows a PSHE scheme of work or age-appropriate milestones, but if we keep our eyes and ears open and work on those safe places to be open and honest, we will have made a good start.

*The links on this page were updated on 30/11/2019; the article was previously published

Livestreaming – Keeping children Safe – Oct 2019

For many parents and teachers, keeping up with young people’s use of technology and the latest trends often presents a challenge. With the growing popularity of livestreaming, I often get asked by teachers how they can keep children safe. We therefore dedicated last week’s webinar to this topic, and just in case you missed it, you can watch it below and read on for some useful advice:

What exactly is livestreaming?

Not to be confused with video chats such as Skype where you can chat via video to a person, livestreaming enables anyone to broadcast a video in live time to an audience. A key difference is that whilst you can select who you chat with during a video chat, livestreaming doesn’t offer that level of control because you are streaming to a public audience – so it’s literally like going out into the park and standing on a box, where anyone who happens to be out there can watch and interact with you. All that’s required is an internet enabled device such as a mobile phone or tablet, and an app, social media site or website to broadcast it.

Why is it so popular with children?

Livestreaming offers young people a great way to stay connected and be part of their peer group as well as gaining exposure to a wider community, where they can interact with their viewers. Whether it’s to showcase a talent, express their identity or share significant events, they are at that moment the star of their show. As for for the audience, it provides an avenue to follow, participate and keep track of other people’s lives, be it friends, family or celebrities. Whilst several livestreaming apps have specifically been developed, a number of social media apps like Facebook live and Instagram’s live video feature have integrated this feature into their platforms almost as an afterthought.

So what are the risks?

As with any innovation around technology, it is important to be aware of the risks to ensure children can maximise these opportunities in a safe and meaningful way. Our DigiSafe pupil online safety survey last year in which 40,000 pupils took part, provided a worrying insight into young people’s experiences livestreaming, made even more concerning given the increase in the use of these services:

  • Almost a quarter have livestreamed with someone they haven’t met in person
  • More than 1 in 20 pupils had been asked to change or get undressed on screen – a particular concern is that the youngest (7 – 8-year olds) were just as likely to be asked to get undressed as students in the first 4 years of secondary school. Whereas predators may trick older children into undressing online, as opposed to coerce or request, they may also hide behind a challenge for younger children, such as “Let’s see how quickly you can change into your swimming costume.”
  • 1 in 6 said something else had happened that had made them feel uncomfortable – with levels of discomfort much higher for those in primary school

You can read the full report, ‘Hopes and Streams’ at

Since carrying out the survey, research carried out by the Internet Watch Foundation revealed that 98% of publicly available livestreamed child sexual abuse images involved children aged 13 and under, with 28% of them below the age of 10.   As well as inappropriate contact, young people could also be exposed to age inappropriate sexual or violent content, abusive and offensive comments and bullying from their audience. Children may freely give out their social media contact details in order to attract more followers, often broadcasting alone from their bedrooms – this is the equivalent of letting strangers into their home without parents realising. With those vulnerable often seeking validation online, positive comments and compliments could also encourage risky behaviour, and because of the live nature, content cannot be edited or moderated and once streamed, could be recorded and shared. The thrill of being live may also reduce their inhibitions, encouraging them to say or do things they wouldn’t normally do, which in turn could have an impact on their digital footprint, with repercussions for their online reputation in terms of how others may see them in the future – think about university applications and employment opportunities.

How can teachers help?

The curriculum provides several opportunities to share good practice, build resilience and promote critical thinking skills online. Teachers can go to to download classroom resources, posters and our ready to use CPD powerpoint with top tips and activities on livestreaming for staff training and discussion starters:

You may also want to take a look at Thinkuknow’s #LiveSkills, designed to help primary and secondary pupils think critically about who they interact with, and how to respond to pressure and manipulation online, whilst Childnet’s To Stream or not to stream provides fun scenario based activities to support classroom discussion.

What can parents do?

There are several resources available for parents at, providing practical steps and tips to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience online. As well as disabling location services and enabling privacy settings, so children are only streaming to friends they know, parents could think about being present, especially with younger ones, and consider what the surrounding room or location could give away in terms of personal information.

Discussion and involvement with their online life is key – regular conversations about who their friends are, what apps they enjoy and how they are engaging with them is always useful. Parents can also become moderators to keep things in check and find out more about the apps their children are using from the NSPCC Net Aware site. CEOP have produced a short animation called #WhoIsSam, highlighting the importance of parents and carers talking openly to their children about being safe online, healthy relationships and speaking out if anything happens online that worries them or doesn’t feel right. You can also download factsheets on live streaming for parents/carers and professionals to use alongside the animation.

For primary pupils, a general conversation about staying safe online using NSPCC’s Pants Rule and Pantosaurus video is also useful to help understand what parts of the body should stay private, and that this rule applies online as well. Parents can get further advice about managing livestreaming and reporting concerns in Thinkuknow’s A Short Guide to Livestreaming

Its not all doom and gloom though, so don’t forget to highlight the positives with balanced messages and remind children that if someone asks them to do something online, they can always say no, end the stream, and talk to a trusted adult.

And remember to sign up for our future webinars at :

• Cyberbullying: a whole school approach – 13th November 2019
⁣ • Serious Youth Violence – 4th December 2019
⁣ • Fake News – 15th January 2020
⁣ • Engaging Parents with Online Safety – 12th February 2020
⁣ • A Guide for Governors – 11th March 2020 Sign up here and ask your questions in advance.

Online safety letter home to parents…

Communicating with parents about staying safe online is challenging but really important, so we thought you might like to see a letter that Greenvale Primary in Croydon (thanks for letting us share it!) sent home to parents about safe search engines, the challenges of YouTube, YouTube Kids and parental settings. This school had just decided to make YouTube available more widely than before – whether or not that applies to you, the rest may give you useful ideas.

Please use, adapt and send, and let us know if it helps. You can download the text as a Word file to edit and adapt alongside other useful such documents from as a word document if you want to adapt and use the text . Otherwise read on here just to see the text:

Online Safety at XXX

Dear Parent / Carer,

I write with regards to children’s access to media through the use of YouTube. 

At XXX, we have a number of internet filters in place which means that inappropriate websites are blocked so that children are unable to access these whilst at school.  These filters are also able to block sites as requested by the school.  In recent years, we have blocked YouTube for children as it can sometimes be difficult to monitor the content within videos.  After discussion with our Internet Service Provider, we have now decided to reinstate access to YouTube at XXX. 

We took this decision, as our view around applications such as YouTube is that children will more than likely be accessing these websites whilst at home and that by simply blocking websites which may show inappropriate content, we are unable to demonstrate how to be vigilant and act if and when we were to come across inappropriate content.  We would also like to make clear that we would be applying a ‘strict, restricted’ level of security on YouTube which will block out videos that are deemed inappropriate for primary aged children. 

At school, we will also speak with the children to make them aware that they are only to go on YouTube when asked to do so by a teacher for specific work reasons.  This way, we can ensure that their use is monitored and that children have a specific reason for viewing media.  This rule will apply throughout the school day, including for children who attend breakfast and after-school club.

As a school, we would like to encourage the use of ‘YouTube Kids’ (as opposed to the main YouTube version) which is more suitable for children.  Please note that this can only be accessed via an app and is not web-based.  There are also search engines which are far more user friendly and suitable for children of primary school age, such as ‘Swiggle’ which can help ensure that children do not accidently come across content which is inappropriate.  Through downloading ‘Google Family Link’, or ‘Apple Screen Time’ (both free apps) you are also able to block or allow different apps on your children’s devices.

Finally, in assembly today, we have shared a song from CEOP with the children and asked them to show you this at home over the weekend.  We hope that this will help open up some helpful dialogue between families about online safety.  Please click here to access a copy of this video. The video that we have watched is video 1, however you will see a number of other videos which will help initiate discussions around staying safe online. 

For information about how you are able to review or update parental controls for apps and devices, please click here. This website provides parents with simple to follow instructions for how to keep your children safe at home.  

The internet can be a wonderful place and we believe can be of great benefit to our pupils.  Our highest priority is ensuring that children remain safe whilst online and ensuring they know what action to take should they come across anything that is inappropriate or causes them distress.

Kind regards,

[ END ] Now over to you… If you have one that’s much more helpful in your opinion, why not share for the benefit of others? Get in touch

New Face-to-Face Safeguarding Training for LGfL Schools – Sept 2019

Welcome back to the new academic year! We’ve been busy all summer developing a new training programme to help you keep up with all the new legislation, ensure compliance and and implement effective practice around safeguarding.

As you are aware, ‘Keeping Children Safe in Education’  has just been updated (September 2019) – so we have commissioned brand new translations of KCSIE Part 1, to reflect the latest changes and updates, to be available mid-September in 11 key community languages. You can download the current versions now at:

As well as providing expert training for safeguarding leads, schools must also ensure they keep ALL other staff up to date with developments – this includes the new guidance document Teaching online safety in school’ (DfE, June 2019), and the new curriculum guidance for Relationships education, relationships and sex education (RSE) and health education,mandatory from September 2020. Did you know that the new RSHE (RSE/PSHE) curriculum has 66 mentions of staying safe online?

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To help you prepare, sign yourself or a relevant staff member up to our new courses – all at no cost, and delivered by some of the country’s leading experts:

  • Official DSL training – full day course offered by experienced local authority trainer with many years’ experience
  • County Lines / Child Criminal Exploitation – delivered by a former Met Police Trident expert on gangs and knife crime
  • PSHE (RSE / RSHE) training on online safety – includes curriculum mapping time; ideal for multiple colleagues to attend as you prepare for the new subject
  • Online Safety Training Featuring CEOP Thinkuknow – ideal for all staff with insights from LGfL and the National Crime Agency’s CEOP Command
  • Prevent Duty for School Safeguarding – our new Prevent expert will help senior leaders and governors ensure your school is compliant with the Prevent duty
  • Digital Citizenship Training – Common Sense Media are developing their resources for the UK and will train you on how to use them
  • SafeConf – major annual safeguarding conference attracting 400+ DSLs each year – book now for March 2020

You can find out more and book for all our training now at

And remember, if it’s hard to get out of school you can always join our 4pm TWILIGHT webinars – designed to cover new DfE guidance, livestreaming, bullying, youth violence, fake news, and engaging parents / governors with online safety. Sign up for our webinars now at

Parents – what are your children going to do on their devices during the summer holidays?

If you are joining us now on Facebook Live, see below for links to what we are looking at. If you weren’t with us, hopefully it will still be a useful reference guide. Obviously in the limited time it isn’t possible to cover everything.

There is more at (but that page is more for schools to use for sharing individual items rather than the whole page). Parents why not follow @LGfLDigiSafe on Twitter or Facebook or subscribe to this blog.

This is the video we watched – what might your children plan to do but not tell you about? Don’t make the answer to punish them or take away devices though as they will be even less likely to tell you.

Here’s are some of the other resources we looked at:

Jessie and Friends (the funny feeling in your tummy video)

Parental controls and settings across all home wifi systems, mobile operators, games and social media sites from Internet Matters.

So our top tip is – don’t let your kids always play games with headphones. It might be annoying to hear, but it may be worth it, even if only now and again.

The survey we mentioned can be found at – that’s where the statistics on children wanting to talk more to their parents about online safety came from.

For all the apps we mentioned (NSPCC for apps, Pantosaurus, app finder, Internet Matters etc), head to And for the Parent v Kid quiz, go to

You may want to read this from the BBC – BBC News – ‘My son spent £3,160 in one game’

Internet Matters parental control guides for all home wifi and mobile providers, plus games consoles and more:

Why not look at some of the videos you can find at

For screen time and family agreement resources see

We will tidy up this blog a bit more later but meanwhile, if you need help during the holidays, you can always call the O2/NSPCC Helpline on 0808 800 5002 for free, Mon – Fri 9am – 7pm. –

If you’re worried about a police matter, call the police. And if it’s an adult approaching a child online, go to CEOP.

Chicken-shop grooming

‘There’s no such thing as a free lunch’ is an expression many people know, but we have called this poster campaign “There’s no such thing as free chicken” to highlight the dangers of chicken-shop grooming.

You may have arrived at this page because you have seen the poster on the right and want to find out more. If you are a parent, carer or teacher, you may want to watch the excellent YouTube video below which explains the concept of chicken-shop grooming in the context of gangs – the same principles apply for sexual and criminal exploitation.

If you are a young person, you may want to watch this Barnado’s video too. Whereas the YouTube video below talks about criminal exploitation (tricking you into a gang), this one explains sexual exploitation (tricking you into sex).

The principles are the same though; it doesn’t need to be an expensive pair of trainers – if a cousin of a friend or a friend of a friend is buying you fast food or small gifts, they might just be nice… or they may expect you to return the ‘debt’ you don’t know you are building up. This can faster than you think, even if you think ‘it wouldn’t happen to me’.

If something has happened though, it’s not your fault. Talk to a teacher, a parent/carer, the police, Childline or The Mix. If someone is blackmailing you they will tell you there’s no way out, but there is.


Since posting this blog, there has been media coverage of the story such as this newspaper article which may be of interest. It references written evidence submitted to the Youth Select Committee by The Youth Justice Board for England and Wales which you can read here. You may want to watch the ITV video in the tweet below for more information too.

Online Safety Facts…or Fallacies?

I recently gave a talk on ten online safety axioms which might not be as effective as we think for keeping children safe. As it seemed to pique some interest, here’s a quick blog version. You will disagree with some; they are supposed to be provocative and make you ‘stop and think’ (see #1 for why that’s ironic).

Watch the video below, or just read on, or to see a shorter video just for the statement you want, click any of the numbered images below.

It’s important to note that there is some truth in all ten statements, but the ‘problem’ is that they represent potentially dangerous simplifications of complex concepts. When we address the same issues with adults, we say it’s too difficult to boil down to a pithy rule, but when it comes to educating children, often we do exactly that. This blog doesn’t give many answers, but lots of questions to think about.

Safe online = ? Locked down / Monitored / Educated / Hand-holding / Blocking / Wrapped in Cotton Wool

First though, it’s important to know what we mean when we talk about staying safe online. Here are six versions of ‘safe’ – how many more can you think of, and which one(s) are we trying to achieve?

Click the image for a brief video explanation

Here’s #1 – a sentence that anyone who has ever given an online-safety talk has probably used (yes, including me; yes, you will find the phrase in our resources now and again; no, I haven’t got an easy alternative – that’s the point). Critical thinking is such an important skill, but it can’t be taught by learning the phrase above. ‘Think’ what? If a teen is about to send a nude image to a boyfriend/girlfriend, the answer to “Do I want to send this?” or “Do I want the other person to see it?” might be “YEEEES”. There is often lots of thinking before clicking, but it doesn’t necessarily lead to wise choices.**

Click the image for a brief video explanation

As with all of these points, you could easily get a blog out of this one (hold on, I did! It’s here). Parents often worry about screen time, and often with good reason…but not always. We don’t talk about food time, we talk about healthy diets; not how long you eat, but how and what. In the same way, time on a screen isn’t time on a screen: are two hours scrolling through other people’s lives on social media the same as a video call with Grandma, research for homework, a times-table game and reading an ebook? Let’s not perpetuate an unhelpful simplification. Check out the blog for more, and for some handy handouts and guidance (Digital Five a Day, for example).

Click the image for a brief video explanation

No, I haven’t gone mad. Of course it’s good advice (ish), but is it even possible? Look at the screenshots above? As adults we might see a form that asks for too much information but shrug our shoulders and do it anyway. We might see a list of permissions that are unnecessary, but because “I neeeeeed that app,” we install it anyway. Why should children be more grown up about it than we are? Oh, and we haven’t even covered the fact that your Amazon parcel probably won’t turn up if you don’t give your name and home address, and if you lie about your age and give a false name, many social media providers will delete your account. So maybe not such a handy one-liner after all…

Click the image for a brief video explanation

Yes I have used this phrase, and no I can’t think of an alternative expression. This is a great challenge for those of us who create materials for schools. Apologies to those teachers who take a resource but then need to spend half an hour talking about what a trusted adult is. Given that most abusers are known by a child and therefore within the ‘circle of trust’, this is such a key concept. And what about when today’s trusted adult becomes tomorrow’s abuser? It’s no wonder we reach for a handy turn of phrase to sum it up, but it’s never that simple. As ever, critical thinking is…critical (have a look at the Trust Me resource). There’s no easy answer and we need to keep encouraging reporting, but perhaps with more of a focus on telling when something doesn’t feel right (for primary, try video 1 of Jessie & Friends – it’s brilliant). It might not be pleasant, but we may also need to spend more time telling children that sometimes good people do bad things.

Click the image for a brief video explanation

This graphic speaks for itself. The quotes, which come from our online behaviour survey of 40,000 pupils Hopes & Streams, illustrate why this advice might be helpful as part of a wider strategy, but certainly shouldn’t have the word ‘just’ at the start; there is so much more to consider. As with #3 about sharing personal details, this may be a good example of asking children to be digitally resilient where actually we shouldn’t. Instead, we should be protecting them and offering an alternative (or telling industry to do so, which is exactly what the government is working on at the moment with the Online Harms White Paper).

Click the image for a brief video explanation

The quote above came from a focus group we carried out with a group of Year 8 students at a London secondary school. It highlights just how careful we need to be when ‘delivering’ online safety education. The pupils we spoke to could eloquently describe some of the classic rules we are talking about in this blog, and what to do in certain situations. But when the border between online and offline only exists in a lesson, is the theoretical conversation we have with them any use in a situation they don’t even see as online? After all, safeguarding is safeguarding (online and off), safety is safety (ditto), and behaviour is behaviour (ditto ditto).

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Here’s another one which is challenging for providers of online safety resources, not just for teachers at the coalface. On the one hand, just because a resource is brilliant, it doesn’t mean it will be when you endure it for the fifth consecutive year. So teachers be careful, but also let us (and all the other amazing providers of materials for schools) know what areas need more coverage, and we’ll get cracking! But at the same time, we need to address the issues that upset children: many of the topics on the infographic above from our survey might be obvious to children, but not all. No adult guessed that videos being shared of animals being hurt would be one of the things that complained about most. Are we asking them and meeting their needs?

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It is quite understandable why you would give into the temptation to give parents the list of ‘bad apps’ that they often ask for. And it’s understandable why they ask for one. But it’s not a good idea. We wrote a Scare vs Prepare blog on the topic a while ago (read it here; it also includes a video explainer), but in a nutshell, it can create a false sense of security and unnecessary panic, and when there is something really ghastly out there, warnings provide free publicity and generate intrigue. Is the answer to say nothing? No, but to warn about behaviours and risks where necessary, because they can apply on all manner of apps. And just like people, bad things happen on good apps.

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Adults never fritter away time scrolling through cat gifs and end up missing a deadline as a result. Or do they? It’s important to give credit where credit is due: whilst we do need to help children and young people manage their time, and any parent knows from ‘the homework conversation’ how stressful this is, let’s keep talking to them about it but also listen and learn how they manage, and give help where it’s needed. Think that sounds crazy? Then read here about how Snapchatters deal with maintaining a 500-day 75-friend streak record when they need to get out the house, or what they do when it’s exam time. We will always need to play the annoying adult role, but a little more insight may lead to more effective haranguing.

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The amazing Professor Sonia Livingstone from the London School of Economics has spent ten years debunking the term digital native and has written a lot about the term and the concept (she suggests naïve expert is preferable). But the three statistics above from our survey illustrate our final fallacy (surely no question mark needed on this one?) rather well in the words of young people. Not enough children tell anybody about bad stuff online, but when they do, they often choose to tell parent. After all, even though not many have ‘that conversation’ regularly, three quarters of children trust what their parents have to say (naturally only when they want to hear an opinion!). And why is that? Because they recognise that it’s not about the app; it’s about the behaviour! So when we facilitate the myth that anyone is ‘too old to get it’, we are doing ourselves, and our children, a major disservice.

So there we have it – my top ten fallacies, which are of course mainly ‘over simplifications of complex issues with a sprinkling of fact’. But that doesn’t make for quite such a good blog title. Let us know what you think, and which ones have I missed? Tweet us at @LGfLDigiSafe

** Please note that to keep this blog shorter than War & Peace, I can only scratch the surface of each point here so some arguments may appear flaky. I could say much more, and am happy to tell you more on the subject, but why not let them marinade in your mind for a while – you may be surprised what you think in a couple of weeks’ time.

The Prevent duty – top tips and resources to support your whole school approach

We were delighted to be joined by a DfE Prevent lead last week for our very first ever LGfL DigiSafe webinar. You can now listen to the full audio here if you missed out on the day. As promised, I’ve provided a summary below, along with top tips, strategies and the latest resources to support you and your school.

Do bear in mind that with Ofsted focusing on equalities, safeguarding and the curriculum, this requires a holistic approach and is relevant to the whole school community – hence my summary may appear extensive, so do feel free to pick out whichever section is relevant to your role from the list below:

  1. Expectations for schools
  2. British Values – the golden thread in the curriculum:
  3. Teaching Primary pupils about extremism and preparing for transition
  4. Raising awareness through assemblies
  5. Equipping staff to deal with challenging questions or controversial issues
  6. Engaging parents                                        

  1. Expectations for Schools:

As you know, schools have a legal responsibility to “have due regard to the need to prevent people from being drawn into terrorism”. What’s important to stress is that this is ultimately about safeguarding – protecting a young person from radicalisation is no different from safeguarding them from other forms of harm, such as gangs and child sexual exploitation. And from a safeguarding perspective, we know already that the dynamics and mechanisms around grooming are very similar, as are the vulnerabilities. With that in mind, it is essential to understand the threat to young people, so you can put the necessary preventative measures in place and engage effectively with parents, pupils & staff to ensure transparency and consistency.

2. Fundamental British Values – the Golden Thread in the Curriculum:

Whether we refer to Fundamental British Values or shared values, ultimately, what really matters is the values themselves and how they are embedded in school’s ethos and practices. Rather than teaching this explicitly, these values need to be promoted across the entire curriculum – a golden thread which permeates all aspects of school life. The curriculum provides many creative opportunities for promoting British values, with many schools already demonstrating good practice through subjects such as PSHE, RE, English, and Geography to introduce the concepts of democracy, the rule of law, individual liberty, and mutual respect and tolerance. Beyond the curriculum, a holistic approach can develop a strong school ethos to further foster these values – examples of effective practice include having:

  • Student councils to promote pupil participation in a democratic way
  • Circle time to promote critical thinking and opportunities to discuss current affairs
  • International days/visits to places of worship to celebrate cultural awareness
  • Fundraising initiatives to raise awareness and support for global humanitarian issues, e.g. the plight of refugees
  • Peer-mentoring programmes to build resilience, promote respect, social activism and support
  • Debating clubs to discuss local, national and global issues
  • Visits from authorities such as the police and youth justice organisations to reinforce the importance of the rule of law

3. Teaching Primary pupils about extremism and preparing for transition:

Fostering positive values such as tolerance and respect for others will help build resilience to extremist narratives and develop a moral compass – many primary schools will already be doing this. For ideas and examples of effective practice, visit the blog by Twinkl  published in collaboration with Educate against Hate. Several primary schools have incorporated additional strategies or programmes to complement their values centred approach to learning. These include adopting:

I’d like to stress that building resilience to extremist narratives doesn’t have to involve talking about terrorist attacks directly, and it’s important that teachers make a judgement about what is appropriate for their pupils. Many primary school children will however be aware of prominent news events including terrorist attacks, either through social media or their friends and families – so addressing these topics head on can be helpful to provide reassurance and put fears at rest. This could take the form of a circle time activity where pupils are encouraged to talk about their feelings and emotions. To support primary teachers, guidance is available at:

4. Raising Awareness through Assemblies:

Assemblies and collective worship sessions provide ideal opportunities to show how British values are relevant to all your pupils. These can include a series of themes around the building blocks of extremism, e.g. power, fairness, celebrating difference, respect, faith, tolerance and other issues contained within the values concept. There are several key dates that you can plan your assemblies around the school calendar, including:

  • Safer Internet Day – February
  • World Social Media Day – June
  • World Refugee Day – June
  • Anti-bullying Week – November

5. Equipping staff to deal with challenging questions or controversial issues around Prevent:

Independent research from Coventry University has highlighted confidence in having difficult conversations as a key concern for teachers. There are lots of examples of good practice happening in schools, and a key focus for the Department is ensuring that good practice is shared and accessible in order to build teachers’ confidence to having potentially challenging or sensitive discussions – I’d like to point out that you don’t need to be an expert in this area – it’s about being there to listen, providing reassurance to your pupils and knowing who you can signpost to if you don’t have an answer. Your History, RE, Politics and PSHE staff will be able to offer valuable insights and knowledge, along with staff who have experiences or backgrounds from various cultures and interests.

And here are some excellent resources to support you along the way:

6. Promoting critical thinking and building resilience to online radicalisation:

In terms of how the risk manifests itself today, an obvious area of vulnerability is online, with extremists making extensive use of online platforms to incite hate, shape opinion and spread their ideologies. We must therefore assume that anyone could at some point be vulnerable online in the absence of protective factors. Unrestricted access to inaccurate content, misinformation and propaganda, together with the unregulated nature of the internet bring new risks, further exacerbated by the volume of online content available.

Points to consider

  • Research from Ofcom’s findings suggests more young people today prefer watching content on YouTube to TV.
  • Although schools will be providing appropriate monitoring & filtering in line with KCSIE’s statutory guidance, this doesn’t necessarily mean that young people won’t see age inappropriate content through their friends’ devices, Bluetooth or other avenues.

The good news is that as school staff, you are in a unique position to empower all children, across all key stages, to be critical thinkers, both off & online. Circle time, form time discussions and opportunities for debate provide valuable openings to help build resilience through the development of knowledge and support pupils to think critically and independently. Useful resources to build into your assembly and form time include:

  • Trust Me – lesson plans, presentations and guidance from LGfL and Childnet for primary and secondary teachers to start discussions around critical thinking, with a focus on content, contact, and propaganda material
  • – cross-curricular activities, lesson plans, quizzes and videos to distinguish between fake and real news
  • IPrevent – guidance, interactive quizzes and case studies to support teachers, pupils and parents around extremism, grooming and cyberbullying
  • Tower Hamlets Prevent resources – lesson plans and activities for to support tutor discussion, assemblies and classroom discussion

7. Engaging parents:

Not all adults share the same use of social media as their children – so we also need to consider how to educate and empower parents and carers. Many schools have found it useful to invite parents to a school safeguarding session, which provides an opportunity to have a stall where you can raise awareness of Prevent as part of the wider safeguarding issues including online safety, FGM and CSE. Coffee mornings and parent evenings are also great opportunities to ask you pupils to present an online safety update, and carry out parent surveys. Remember to update your website with a link to Educate Against Hate which has an excellent section for parents, and you will also find some fantastic resources to signpost parents to at , including how to discuss a terrorist attack with your child.

A reminder that if teachers have a concern, they should follow their normal safeguarding procedures. This will usually involve speaking with their schools’ designated safeguarding lead who may suggest further discussion with the student or their parents. The Department for Education has established a counter-extremism helpline to avoid a situation where teachers feel there is no one willing to act on their concerns. Details are available on the Department for Education’s GOV.UK homepage and on There is also advice on this site about possible signs of radicalisation.

Do feel free to contact us or post a comment if you have any further questions, or would like further information on this topic. Email or follow us @LGfLDigiSafe

Everyone is talking about the Age Appropriate Design Code – so how will this upcoming legislation protect our children online?

Last month, after lenthy campaigning, the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO) released their much anticipated Age Appropriate Design Code. You may have heard about this groundbreaking initiative, currently under consultation until 31st May 2019. But what exactly is it and why does it affect you?

Aimed at providers of social media platforms, content streaming services, online games, apps, devices, search engines and other websites, it outlines a code of practice for online services ‘likely to be accessed by children in the UK’. Through a set of 16 robust standards it ensures that the best interests of the child are the primary condition during the design and development phase. In doing so, it paves the way for parents and children to make informed choices and exercise control. This is vital, since many online services frequented by children were initially designed with adults in mind, well before the advent of new technologies when significant legislation around data protection and consumer rights enabled these services to bypass basic online safeguarding principles. It is worth noting also that the code is not restricted to services specifically directed at children, but are nonetheless likely to be used by under-18s, so even if the service claims to target adults, documented evidence is required to demonstrate that children are not likely to access the service in practice.

Why am I so excited?

As educators we have come a long way in raising awareness of risk and empowering pupils, parents and carers with strategies to stay safe online as part of our duty of care. Yet we all know that children are only as safe as the environment they occupy – their online world is a little like William Golding’s ‘Lord of the Flies’, the only difference being that here they inhabit a virtual island, unregulated and lacking in adult supervision, where they are unwittingly manipulated into forfeiting their personal information by entities masked behind the anonymity of their screens. A recent report by the Norwegian Consumer Council, Deceived by Design, warns that many big tech companies currently employ psychologists to design ‘sticky’ environments that nudge children to spend more time online and thereby generate greater profits. Tactics often used include the use of ‘dark’ patterns, or tricks incorporated in web and app design to encourage them to make choices they may not have intended to, like buying or signing up for something.

So last year when a group of pupil cybermentors at Greenford High School were invited to partake in a focus group by Revealing Reality, commissioned by the ICO to inform the Code’s development, I was thrilled. Their concerns were evident from the start, ranging from a lack of clarity around default privacy settings on social media, and the adult terminology used in terms and conditions notices, to confusion about how their data was being used and indirect ways their location and personal information could be tracked. Many also pointed out the varied strategies employed to extend their time online, such as positive feedback loops, reward cycles and forfeiting points if they paused in the middle of a game. Some pupils also admitted compromising these concerns, believing they had to agree to certain terms at the cost of missing out on these services altogether, in order to socialise and benefit from the apps their peers used. Seeing that their voices along with several others nationally have not only been heard but taken on board in shaping this vital piece of legislation is therefore great news.

A summary of the 16 standards from the code

So what does the Code mean?

You can access the entire document here – but I’ve taken the liberty of summarising key recommendations and significant nuggets that you will find useful for your discussions with pupils and parents below. These include, but are not limited to ensuring providers take responsibility for:

  • Establishing a high privacy default setting on all sites
  • Introducing robust age verification checks on platforms or treating all users as children
  • Limiting how children’s personal data is collected, used and shared
  • Disabling geolocation tools by default and providing an obvious sign for children when tracking is active, which must default back to off when each  session is over
  • Removing targeted advertising as standard, unless there is a compelling reason not to
  • Discouraging ‘nudge’ techniques from inciting children to engage in a certain way and keep them online for longer. Examples include Snapchat ‘streaks’ or Facebook ‘likes’, luring them to click on preferred options through use of more prominent buttons, colours or fonts, or making it ‘difficult’ to manage their choices. Instead of driving users to share personal data, guidelines require providers to ‘nudge’ children towards healthy behaviours such as taking screen breaks
  • Ensuring privacy information, terms and condition are concise, transparent and in age-appropriate language, with bite-sized explanations about how data is used at the point of access
  • Requiring companies to show that all staff involved in the design and development of services likely to be used by children comply with the code of practice.

And that’s not all – it will be statutory, with companies facing legal action for failing to comply, and fines of up to £18 million or 45% of annual turnover for serious breaches of data protection in line with General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR).

It’s worth noting that critics have pointed out that in treating everyone like children, the code invariably undermines user privacy by requiring the collection of credit card details or passports for every user, and is an attack on the business model of online news and many other free services, making it difficult to target advertising to viewer interests.

And whilst there are areas for clarification, I remain optimistic, and hope this has inspired you to discuss this ground-breaking code with your pupils – after all it will affect them and their insights are critical – so please collate their views, and respond to the consultation here. The safeguarding of our children online can only be effectively addressed through collective social mediation and critical thinking, focusing on the impact of online behaviour and environments. This requires a commitment by industry to take responsibility for safer online environments through improved design and monitoring, together with an inclusive and collaborative approach to education, with the child’s best interest at the heart of this. Furthermore, as technology rapidly evolves, it is vital for policy makers to keep abreast of these developments. Only then can we take an informed and consistent approach in addressing online risk, enabling young people to safely maximise the wealth of opportunities afforded by technology.

Introducing Mubina Asaria, our New Online Safeguarding Consultant – May 2019

Hello and welcome to my first blog post at LGfL! I’m honoured to have joined the DigiSafe centre of excellence in safeguarding and look forward to sharing our latest developments, top tips and best practice to support you in your role safeguarding young people online.

Mubina Asaria

Some of you may have seen me presenting at the LGfL conference and Bett Futures Stage – or you might have come across the Prevent Toolkit for Schools which I developed recently. I am passionate about empowering young people online and promoting wellbeing through the positive use of technology – so much so that I completed a Masters on a whole school approach to tackling cyberbullying, where I developed our school’s award winning CyberMentor programme, which reduced online incidents by 47% in the first year. And thanks to a generous grant from John Lyon’s Charity, we were able to roll it out across our partner schools in Ealing to develop their online safety provision, publishing the findings in a special edition of the Journal of Assistive Technology. More recently I completed a 2-year secondment with Ealing Council as their Prevent Schools Adviser, where I established the ARISE Network and Quality Assurance Mark, working in collaboration with the DfE, and a network of primary, secondary, independent, faith and special schools, to address challenges and develop best practice in implementing the Prevent duty.

Outside of this, I love travel, foreign film, tai chi, street food and going to the theatre. Interesting fact – exactly a year ago this week I was biting into a scone at the Royal Garden Party in Buckingham Palace – an incredibly humbling experience being surrounded by inspiring individuals from all walks – and I still have the napkin!

Must get back to work now, we are working on some exciting initiatives and training opportunities coming your way, so watch this space!

Pornography protections for children

October 2019 update. The government has announced that the age verification of online pornography will not be implemented.

They said it couldn’t be done, but AV Day approaches as the UK becomes the first country in the world to enforce age verification for online pornography, with a view to turning off pornography for under 18s. What will it mean in reality?

That’s the day when online commercial adult sites will have to start checking that their content is only available to over-18s.

It all started in April 2017, when the Digital Economy Act was passed, and with it the UK government’s plans to restrict access to online pornography. It has taken a while, but it’s about to happen! Although the Online Harms White Paper and consultation process continues, looking at other steps to make the UK “the safest place to be online”, the DCMS (Department for Digital, Culture, Media & Sport) has announced that age verification of online pornography will begin on 15 July.

This groundbreaking move is being watched closely around the world and may be copied in other countries, but why is it necessary in the first place? Whilst it is accepted that young people will find a way to access pornography if they are determined to do so, it is harmful for their development to learn about sex from pornography rather than sex education, and can damage them in various ways as they continue through adolescence. Add that to the fact that a lot of the time children and young people are not seeking out pornography but stumble across it or have it sent to them (not sure that’s true? scroll through the graphics below from our research!), and the reasons for the new law become even clearer.

There are all kinds of practicalities around the technology and how you prove your age safely and maintaining data protection and confidentiality. I could tell you more about that as I’ve sat on a policy group looking at the issues, but they are less relevant for schools as they work with under-18s.

The key thing to know is that the law applies to commercial sites only – this means ones where the user pays OR the primary commercial aim of the site is to offer pornography. That means not all porn will be blocked (so certain social media sites which have an enormous amount of porn on them are not yet covered by the law; but watch this space!).

With the advent of RSHE (Relationships, Sex & Health Education) coming soon as a statutory subject, and against the background of the new legislation coming into force and therefore becoming more of a hot topic than it is anyway (lots of schools are already doing great work here), it is worth pointing out the resources out there to support teachers. At LGfL we have put together a one-stop signposting area to multiple resources from a range of organisations – visit to find lesson plans, advice pages for pupils and parents, guidance from the regulator and much more.

One resource from the page which is particularly worth highlighting is
this ( ↑ ) amazing new package from Childnet called Myth or Reality (part of a full new RSHE toolkit). The pornography part of the kit is truly brilliant, with full lessons and discussion guides, excellent teacher notes and 3 powerful ‘talking head’ videos explaining young people’s experiences with porn. Take a look and get ready for the discussions that could help young people as the issue hits the headlines more and more over the coming months.

The ‘dreaded parent online safety evening’

“I’ve been asked to run a parent session on online safety – what should we do?” That’s a question we are often asked, often accompanied by a deep sigh because nobody came to the last one, or only the same people. Here are some suggestions. The ‘not-very-graphical graphic’ with below is a summary list to start with, or read on for a little more detail. And remember is the place where we signpost to helpful resources for this area.

Caveat – read on to find out more about #1

Point 1 above (don’t bother!) isn’t intended to be provocative, but we always recommend drip-feeding information to parents throughout the year.
If you send home a regular newsletter about curriculum or events, why not add a pointer, reminder or resource each time. That is easy to do but can have a regular impact. If you are going to have a face-to-face sessions as well, and they can be very helpful, first consider whether a standalone big-bang approach once a year will be effective. Will parents come? Will the right ones come who you really want to be there? Will all the effort lead to sustainable change/support? If the answer to any of those is no, then maybe another approach is better. Why not add it onto an existing event, for example? Anyway, once you have decided how to approach it, here is just one of many ways you might approach it (remember the key is to customise for your setting, children and parents!).

Click for a higher-res version

Point 2 – why not show the image above on screen as parents come into the session? The statistics are from Hopes & Streams, our survey of 40,000 young people. They speak for themselves but are certainly worth discussing – ask parents if they feel confident talking about online safety with their children, and point out how the first 2 stats show why it is so important that they do, and how the third one demonstrates that children recognise how adults’ life experience can be helpful, even on an app, site or game you’ve never heard of, let alone used – so it is worth it, and can help! We have a poster you may want to use with these stats as well here (from

Point 3 – if you haven’t got an ‘AUP’ (Acceptable Use Policy, which is actually more about behaviour than use), then get one! We have a template for you here. It’s no good just having one though – show it, talk it through and discuss why each point is important. Even if you fear some may ignore it, it gives you a foundation for any tricky conversations you may have in future. But above all, discussing the rationale for it with parents will probably mean that they will understand and adhere to it!

Points 4 & 5 – give some background to life online to young people by referring to our survey of 40,000 pupils from Primary and Secondary schools, Hopes & Streams. You could show the video from the page, or simply scroll through the flipbook to see some of the topics and quotes / statistics. Below are some of the themes, but see the report for statistics and quotes.

Point 6 – make sure you watch them first as you might get questions if you do things differently, but Internet Matters made videos to show parents what they might expect their children to cover at school in the area of online safety, either for Primary or Secondary.

As with everything on this list, you could also send it in advance, or as one of your weekly reminders, or…

Point 7 – this is a non-point. Please don’t include telling parents about the latest scary apps/sites/games/scares/dares etc by name!! Don’t give alist of bad apps or good apps. Why on earth not? See here (this is more for staff than for parents, but helpful for you as background to this).

Point 8 – However, if parents want to find out about a particular app (why not demo it?) there’s the NSPCC’s NetAware app which gives great overviews and summaries of the risks, opportunities and what parents/children think. Find this and others via

Point 9 – While we’re talking apps, show parents the Internet Matters app for having a conversation with a child. It’s a great ipad app which an adult holds at one end and the child at the other (see below), and it gives you the conversation to have that you might otherwise be wary of! Parentzone has a great newsletter they may want to sign up to as well.

Point 10 – Screen time is often a concern for parents, but the best thing you can do is reassure them that ‘how long?’ isn’t as important as ‘what’ and having balance. has plenty including flyers you could hand out, plus a blog from us that explains a bit more about what to look for. Remember you can’t compare one bit of screen time with another, in the same way as you can’t compare broccoli with KFC or chicken dippers when talking about food – so beware people offering official time limits or polarising ‘good’ or ‘bad’ judgments.

Point 11 – Convey the really important message below for the youngest children who might get tricked into getting changed on camera (that risk is for all of them!). Find the full resolution poster below, why this is for the youngest pupils – and ALL of them – and a video explanation at

Poster thumbnail

Point 12 – Again for younger pupils, but actually a key message for all children and young people (although the video is probably worth showing for all primary year groups even if it’s aimed at EYFS/KS1), show this great new video to parents and explain how important the message is for children to tell an adult if something feels funny in their tummy (and I dare you not to be singing the song for days! New from CEOP – Jessie & Friends has a really good message and for older children too, talk about who they talk to / reporting.

Point 13 – Talk about parental control / self-control apps and safe search engines. There are strong views for/against, but consider the ‘training wheels’ approach). There are safe search engines like Swiggle which are great for home use, and apps like Family Link from Google, Digital Wellbeing or similar apps (e.g. Quality Time) and Screen Time for Apple devices. Remember that these are great for easing children into their first device use, and as they get older, great for them (or for parents and teachers too!!) to regulate their own use and see how much time they really spend scrolling on Instagram. And remember Internet Matters tells you how to set parental controls on all the main UK internet service providers. That won’t solve everything, but it’s a start and important in the context of all the other point.

Point 14 – This point will make such a difference. Get some pupils to come along and say what they play, and what they like or don’t like, and get the parents to ask questions. You’ll be surprised, and so will the parents.

Point 15 – There’s gaming advice at and all manner of materials you may find useful, but why not simply ask how many parents have played the games their children play / how many let them play 18 games; ask why and remind parents that 18 games are not called 18 because of higher skills level, but because like films or alcohol, they are not age-appropriate and can cause long term damage. Rape, killing prostitutes, all manner of other attacks and murder, nudity and so on are commonplace with very lifelike graphics in some 18 games that primary children play! Do they know?

Point 16 – Having covered some of these points, why not return to the Hopes & Streams parent/reporting stats and ask them their next steps.

Point 17 – Talk about online pornography and Serious Youth Violence. We might not want to address such issues but they are a reality and there are great tools out there for all ages. ** Next week Childnet are launching great new online pornography materials – we will add them here once live **

Point 18 – Things are changing, especially in the UK which is leading the world with initiatives that are really making a change for the better – tell them about the Online Harms White Paper, the ICO Age-Appropriate Design Code / Age Verification for Online Pornography.

Point 19 – End on a positive! Yes it is possible – and important. Hopes & Streams has plenty of positives – one example is below. And of course use those you know about and ask your pupils for their examples – they will be the most powerful.

Point 20 – Start again! Keep it up and drip feed throughout the year. Well done; you’re doing a great job.

ADDENDUM – only a few hours have passed but I keep thinking of new things to add, e.g. if you are going to invite an outside speaker to deliver a parent session, consider if that’s the best thing (sometimes it will be a great idea but they won’t be there to answer any questions from parents in future), but use the UKCIS document Using External Visitors to Support Online Safety Education to help make sure they are the best person for the job.

This blog has been adapted from a presentation given at the LGfL curriculum conference on 25/4/19. If you were there and would like to see the slides again, click here.

Online Harms White Paper

The Government today published the Online Harms White Paper, following last year’s Green Paper, published as part of the UK Internet Safety Strategy. What’s new? What’s changed? What do you think?

We’ve been busy reading in the office today….

If you want to read the full 102 pages – and why wouldn’t you? – or the shorter executive summary, see them both on this page. The proposals are open to public consultation.

As there are so many overviews already online, I shan’t try and produce another, but to give some handy links to go and read exactly what you are after, in general and for schools.

Firstly, for some overviews and a take on how the media is covering the launch, you may want to read this BBC article or this from the Telegraph. Press coverage is largely positive with many bodies welcoming the policies and strategies; where there is criticism it largely relates to the feasibility of certain proposals or civil liberty concerns around privacy and censorship.

One key proposal relates to a new regulator for online safety in the UK. Although the White Paper does not specify who this will be, it mentions Ofcom as a likely interim regulator, so you may be interested in this speech from the Ofcom CEO. In it Sally Martin outlines how a regulator might approach online safety and some of the challenges it would expect to face.

For an overview of the kinds of harms which the White Paper is trying to combat, see Ofcom’s research with adults, or LGfL DigiSafe’s survey of 40,000 young people.

A typical comment from the 40,000 pupils we surveyed for Hopes and Streams

Although there is lots to it, we recommend you have a look at the government’s proposals to see if you want to reply to the consultation as a school or individual.

Meanwhile if you would like more information or support to use with pupils or parents on some of the topics raised which may be discussed more widely as a result of the publication of the White Paper, here are some handy links to collections of materials that may help you (we could go on…):

Those links address the general themes, but why not engage pupils in what they think needs to be done as a result of the Internet Safety Strategy. For a very relevant discussion starter with children and young people, you could use these proposals from 5rights on how new apps, sites and games should be designed (screenshot below from p6 of this report). Show them this list and I’m sure there will be plenty of useful feedback!

Calling time on screen time!?

I’ll let you into a secret – I don’t like the term screen time; I think it’s unhelpful as a concept, let alone as a framework for discussion or safeguarding. So it’s ironic I’m writing a blog about it. Read on to find out more…and yes, to see some guidance on it too!

Many column inches are dedicated to the issue of children’s screen time each week – normally along the lines of “it’s out of control!” or “the country’s going to the dogs, and it’s all because of excessive screen time”. Until recently, these articles referred to 20-years-old US screen-time rules which were actually written for television viewing, but now two UK bodies have published great advice to help frame the debate.

The Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health (RCPCH) has published The health impacts of screen time: a guide for clinicians and parents; and from the UK’s Chief Medical Officers (CMO), we have the snappily titled Screen-based activities and children and young people’s mental health and psychosocial wellbeing: a systematic map of reviews.

From p10 of the CMO document

Both are worth a read and may surprise you if you have heard about them, as some extracts were rather selectively quoted to fit a particular narrative. But here’s the rub – neither of them recommend a one-size-fits-all screen-time limit, and what pleases me is that they actually seem to mainly talk about the term to debunk it.

CMO tells us “scientific research is currently insufficiently conclusive…”, “[no] evidence of a causal relationship between screen-based activities and mental health problems”. And from RCPCH: “time spent on screens – from social media to computers and television – is a major part of modern life and a necessary part of modern education.” The popular view that “screen time is directly ‘toxic’ to health […] has essentially no evidence to support it”.

The two bodies don’t dismiss popular worries, recommending further research whilst warning against the classic correlation-causation trap (as illustrated by these classic Tyler Viglen graphs). As the CMOs point out, “it could be, for example, that CYP who already have mental health problems are more likely to spend more time on social media.” Also, they warn against conflating three distinct issues:

  • Screen time
  • Content (is it educational, illegal, creative, inspirational, negative?)
  • Persuasive design (make sure you read this by 5 Rights)

It is important to remember at this point that the internet is an amplifier for whatever we put into it, and it holds up a mirror to society – when good things happen online, they can be made amazing; unfortunately, the reverse is very much true as well. That’s why I’d rather focus on what is happening on the screen than how much time is spent on it.

RCPCH and CMO do offer warnings, and advise caution – always balanced against the potential benefits of screen-based activities. Where a young person is missing out on physical activity, time with friends or family, schoolwork, or of course sleep, screen-time limits are needed.

RCPCH points out that it is easy to lose track of what you eat, so snacking can be a big problem, and we must never forget how important it is for young people to get enough sleep every night. As with all issues around online safety and digital resilience, a conversation is needed between schools, parents and young people.

So how can we support parents? Use the handy overview flyer for parents from the CMO document, for example (see image above) and use these practical questions from the RCPCH guidance:

Is screen time in your household controlled?
Does screen use interfere with what your family want to do?
Does screen use interfere with sleep?
Are you able to control snacking during screen time?

Other great organisations like Childnet, Webwise and Internet Matters have also published accessible information to share with parents. And already a classic is the Digital-Five-A-Day from the Children’s Commissioner, which really helps to show why screen time isn’t just screen time (passively consuming versus active creation, learning, support, etc). You can find links to all of these via

All of these great tools can help parents take control, support and learn alongside their children, without focussing on an artificial ideal time limit. After all, as RCPCH points out, what about homework done on screens – is that all bad? Should all screen-based fun time be cancelled if this week’s homework was online?

We have come this far and not said much about all the content and contacts online that cause concern and sometimes great damage. These problems are well documented elsewhere (e.g. in the news every day, and of course in Hopes and Streams). But screen-time limits won’t help here, as it only takes a second to click on a bad link to a self-harm image, beheading or pornography; and a bullying message doesn’t take long either.

In school, we help prevent this with made-for-schools filtering and many other protections, but at home it’s different.

That’s where all the sensible precautions around using filters at home come in, plus of course making sure you know and can see what your children are doing and having an open conversation around what goes on online, and what shouldn’t. Have a look at or to find out more about some of the great ways there to get these conversations started. You will also find links to tools from Google and Apple to help adults and young people monitor and control their own screen time and see how much time they really spent being creative as opposed to mindless scrolling…

And it would be remiss to go any further without mentioning that the best source of research in this area is from Sonia Livingstone from the LSE, who has has writing about screen time and related issues for years. Check out her blog for fascinating insights into this and many other topics relating to digital parenting.

I would write more, but I’m fast approaching my screen-time limit, so I’d better get off and…

Helpful infographic from Webwise Ireland

Social media is killing / saving us [delete as applicable]

The perils of social media are never far from the front pages, and this Safer Internet Day is no exception, as the government announces plans to ban firms that don’t work harder to remove harmful content.

Of course, there’s more to it than regulation, but rather than add to the column inches, this ‘blog in quotes’ is a reminder of the best and worst of young people’s online lives – in their own words (from Hopes & Streams). Just be sure to scroll to the end!

The problem – it’s everywhere

Porn and violence

It isn’t always what we expect

Grown-ups don’t always get it

Reporting isn’t always effective

Mental health is taking a big hit

Self-harm is rife and even used for bullying

But there is so much that is good. For a start, often others DO help!

And they love things like this

Social media can bring together those who wouldn’t otherwise meet

Even gaming can be positive; even families can benefit from video chat


The internet is an amplifier of good and bad: the output can be amazing or horrendous, depending on the input. This Safer Internet Day, let’s remember the positive, but commit to tackling the negative with a mixture of government intervention, industry investment and self-improvement
(time, money and moderation), and lots of education (for young people and adults). Remembering of course that all of those will be so much more effective if based on the voice of the young person. “That makes me happy and great.”

To find out what we found out… read Hopes & Streams.

Keeping Children Safe in Education – translated

Now available from LGfL for the benefit of all schools – Part 1 of this key safeguarding document which needs to be understood by ALL staff (that means ALL by the way).


Find out more and access the translations from

Why not share on your January INSET days (if you have any)?

Life online for a Year 8 pupil

Having learned so much from the 40,000 pupils who took part in our online safety survey earlier this year (read Hopes & Streams here), the LGfL DigiSafe team has now begun a series of focus groups in schools to find out a bit more about some of the issues raised. In our first school visit, we sat down with a group of Year 8 pupils in a leading London secondary and began to chew the online fat. Here’s a selection of the insights they shared. The analysis is deliberately brief to let the young people do the talking.

Online, schmonline!

The quote says it all. Before starting our session properly, I asked what the pupils understand by the terms online and online safety, and soon I heard the quote above. We know that young people don’t have the same distinction between the ‘offline’ and ‘online’ worlds that adults do (actually I’m not sure adults do either apart from when they’re talking about children); but this emphasised how important it is to make sure that the language we use actually means something. For example, if our pupils can repeat back to us ‘five top tips for behaving online’ but don’t think YouTube or Snapchat are online, then they won’t apply those principles to what they do on such apps. That can’t be overly helpful!

Thank you, next!

There are so many resources out there, but if we pick the best ones, it may be true that someone else thought it was the best one last year as well. And if it’s ten years old (even if the message is still correct), then it might be time to move on and use something else as the impact will have been lost. Of course, this is easier said than done, but that’s why we are committed to releasing new research and new resources. And if you aren’t sure, ask your pupils if they’ve seen/done it before – if so, talk about what they think of it!

In Hopes & Streams, we found out that secondary students were 7 times more likely to be negative about online-safety education (specifically it being about scaring them), and the students reminded us that the more we tell them not to do something or use a certain app or website, the more likely they are to do it. That ties in well with our Scare or Prepare message to schools (read about that here).

Teaching AND Learning

It wasn’t that students didn’t want to talk about what goes on with social media or learn techniques for dealing with their online lives, but they were keen to say that teachers needed to listen first to what their realities were. I’m sure no teacher disagrees with that, but of course the pressures of fitting everything into the curriculum or school day makes it so hard – nonetheless, a useful reminder for us all.

Nobody will ever know!

I’ll give you one guess what the quote above referred to… That’s right, explicit images. When I asked what do teachers need to know more about, one student was quick to point out “peer pressure”, which led onto this quote. You can find resources, the official guidance and signposting at, but peer pressure covers so many more areas, and maybe schools might want to use this quote to talk in a safer context about being pressured to share something else (password, personal details, embarrassing picture of someone else, etc) to start a discussion about trust and critical thinking.

So you like streaks too? Snap!

Phew – that’s my streak done for today!

No discussion with young people would be complete without lots of mentions of Snapchat (YouTube, Instagram and Fortnite came up too, of course, but what we heard about Snap was very interesting).  We talked about streaks (what’s that?) and it was no surprise that most of them had plenty – one student had them with 75 friends, some up to 500 days old – but that won’t surprise anyone. What was great to hear though, was that although they did some as soon as they got up, as soon as they got in from school and just before bed, they were capable of rationalising and being sensible too:

  •  For example, if he was in a hurry, student X would simply draw an ‘S’ on an image and send it to all 75 friends – job done for the day! Another said that her brother was in Year 11 (GCSE year) and so had stopped using the app. As so often, young people deserve more credit than they always receive.

  •  When asked about one of the excellent ‘5 Rights’ proposals to enforce default ‘streak holidays'(page 6 of this), the students were all in favour of this way to have a break but not lose out on the fun element.

  •  And don’t forget, Snapchat isn’t just about nudes and cat pics; one student reminded us that social media is a good thing because if he had forgotten the homework, he would use it to ask what it was and not get in trouble.


It’s good to talk…

That’s what we think anyway. Do get in touch, share this blog (we’re @lgfldigisafe on Twitter and Facebook alike) and let us know what you think of the points above and how we can support schools in the light of these comments. And of course, tell us what you think we should cover in one of our next focus groups – we will be back in schools throughout the academic year to see what else we can find out for the benefit of schools.



Parents – scare or prepare?

UPDATE FEB 2021 – new DfE guidance ‘Harmful online challenges & hoaxes’

Schools often receive warnings about ‘bad’ apps, sites or games or new dangerous challenges online. Sometimes warnings even come from official sources or with appealing graphics. But should you pass them onto parents? We say…no.

Click ⤴ to download the poster

To find out why, use our overview poster to help educate parents or colleagues or for a bit more detail read on (don’t miss the links at foot of page) or watch the video.

It can be useful for professionals to know about specific risks. So why not share them as widely as possible? If an app children use has had a grooming incident, a site seems to promote self-harm or suicide, or a game is full of inappropriate material, surely it makes sense to pass on this information to parents?

This may seem counter-intuitive, especially when you see scary headlines about the perils of the online world, but it’s not always* helpful to name and shame. Not because the information is necessarily wrong, but it’s a complex issue, and there are three key problems with those headline-grabbing warnings. You run the risk of:

  1. Generating a false sense of security. If parents think they just need to make sure their children aren’t playing one particular game, but then everything is okay, they might miss out what else is going on!
  2. Giving free publicity to what can sometimes be pretty awful sites. Widely spread warnings can even boost their traffic, especially if you are sharing a glossy poster about the dangers of a particular app. After all, tell a teenager something is off-limits or dangerous, what it’s called and where to find it, and what’s going to happen next…?
  3. Spreading panic and making parents think everything online is bad. That won’t help build digital resilience and it won’t make the most of the amazing opportunities of today’s technology. Nor of course will it encourage parents and children to talk openly about their online lives – the good, bad and the ugly. And this is what will help them stay safe from the real dangers that are out there.

So does that mean we don’t have any answers? Not at all. We carry out research to better understand the latest risks and dangers online, sometimes uncovering new ones ourselves, and we work hard to share this information with schools and to give them advice and resources that will help them understand how to manage the risks. What’s more, for the schools on our network, we have all kinds of technology to protect them, and for example where necessary we will move sites into different categories on our filtering to keep staff and pupils safe, too.

What about parents though – are we saying keep them in the dark? Not at all. But bad things happen on good apps (and vice versa). So rather than sharing lists of “dodgy” and “safe” apps, which are often based on headlines, rumours and last year’s scandals**, we say instead focus on helping parents to understand the latest features and functionality of games and apps, and what to look out for when gaming or livestreaming, using virtual reality or whatever the next big thing is that hasn’t been invented yet. 

Take livestreaming, for example. It used to be available in only a few apps, but now it’s everywhere, almost as an afterthought sometimes. So don’t try to learn the names of everywhere you can stream, but talk to your child about if they are allowed to do it, and if so how, where and when. What’s allowed? What’s not? Take a look at for a warning message worth sharing in a non-scary way.

It can feel overwhelming for parents, so try to:

  1. Drip feed information throughout the school year
  2. Remember to focus on the positives of using technology, as well as all the bad stuff. And above all, try to 
  3. Help establish a dialogue between children and parents about their online lives. has all kinds of materials from us and other amazing organisations working in this space to help you work with parents and support their conversations.

So remember, next time you are tempted to share a flashy name and shame warning with parents, stop for a second to ask yourself – is it going to scare or prepare; is it designed for panic or protection? Get in touch and let us know how we can help you do more of the latter.

Why not use this BBC Own It video guide with YouTuber Grace Mandeville

Oh, and by the way…

* We accept that there are some really unsavoury apps run by companies which don’t seem to care about keeping children safe, and at the same time there are others with amazing ‘safety by design’ baked in, plus a commitment to keeping children safe. But the point is, this can change from one day to the next, and keeping up with it is virtually impossible, whereas talking to your child about having fun but staying safe online, plus showing an interest and discussing how to behave and react is altogether more realistic and productive in the long-term, and more likely to keep them safe when bad things happen on good apps.

Useful links

Ban the phones!?

The French have been cracking down on mobile phones in schools: as of this rentrée (back-to-school season), a new law fulfils French President Emmanuel Macron’s election promise, so you won’t see another phone in a French school…or will you? Actually, it’s not that simple – for some, not a lot will change.

There have been many column inches dedicated to the new ban on mobile phones in French schools that came into force this September. There is plenty to be said on both sides of the argument, much of which has already been said, so rather than re-hash that, I’ve collated some links for further reading below.

But this is just a quickfire blog post to issue a pedantic “Did you know?” as a bit of background to the debate, which is certainly relevant if we take the approach of “If it works in another country, then why not here”. The actual text of the law (see below) says that in early years settings, primary and lower secondaries (collèges), mobiles are banned, “except where the school expressly permits their use in specific circumstances (especially educational use) or locations”. And for the three final years of secondary education (lycées), the school doesn’t have to but “can” introduce a “total or partial” ban. So in fact, any school that still wants to allow mobiles at lunchtime, in the playground, or even in lessons when the teacher thinks it is appropriate, can do exactly that.

Screenshot from Legifrance, the office French government portal for state legislation

So whatever side of the debate you take (read more below if you want more), remember that the result of the new French law is greater support for schools which want a total ban, but plenty of scope for allowing it – and not only for educational reasons (news article / video – in French).

Here at LGfL TRUSTnet, we’re all about supporting schools to use tech better in the classroom and beyond, and that is the case for those which allow phones and those which don’t. We found that nearly 1 in 10 pupils find it hard to put down their device and have a break (see page 17 of our pupil survey report), and we will be looking at how we can further support schools, parents and pupils with tech addiction / detox over the coming months. It starts of course with the modelling of good behaviour by adults.


Links to opinion pieces for/against a UK ban on mobiles in schools:

Does banning smartphones in schools improve children’s development?‘ – Internet Matters article with expert views for and against (have you seen their new Back to School campaign?)

No, mobile phones should not be banned in UK schools‘ – article by Head of School of Education & Childhood Studies, University of Portsmouth

New statistics on parents who want a school ban vs those who still want their children to have their phone – from new Internet Matters research

10 Reasons Why Handheld Devices Should Be Banned for Children Under the Age of 12‘ from Huffington Post

Banning kids from having smartphones misses the point LSE response to the above article

‘Self-harm bullying’

Schools and parents hear lots about self-harm and about bullying, but did you know there was such a thing as ‘self-harm bullying’, where children and young people are encouraged to harm themselves or worse? It sounds awful, but it’s important for schools and parents to know what’s going on.

(NB – read on for news of a new teacher CPD training resource)

Self harm quote

When we carried out our online-safety survey of 40,000 pupils around the UK earlier this year (read about it in Hopes & Streams), we asked pupils “Have you ever seen anything that encourages people to hurt themselves?”, which led to the striking statistic that yes, almost 1 in 6 pupils (primary and secondary alike), had seen something that encourages self-harm.

Against the background of headlines about ‘self-harm epidemics‘, with GPs and schools reporting major increases in cutting and other forms of self-harm, we expected to hear about online material from groups that encourage cutting or also eating disorders (known as pro-ana or pro-mia). Unfortunately we did indeed. However, we also found out something else.

Although we had asked separately about bullying, and found that 1 in 4 pupils had been bullied online and 1 in 13 admitted to having been the bully, we were surprised to discover from pupils’ free-text answers that the two topics were linked more closely than ever before. Again and again, we would read comments like the one at the top of this page.

Not only is it common for bullying to include calls to “go kill yourself”, but this is now often followed up by instructions, images, even videos on how to do so. Given the link between bullying and harm or suicide, this is particularly disturbing.

We need the key technology players to be doing more to remove self-harm material from their platforms, through human moderation and use of technology, and we are delighted to see that the government is driving this on as it works on legislation following from the Internet Safety Strategy.

But it is also important that parents and teachers understand what is going on and are ready to respond. One step that we have taken to try and help with this is by creating a CPD presentation for staff specifically on Self-Harm Bullying, which can be delivered by a designated safeguarding or mental health lead within the context of broader staff education about self-harm. It’s available to all schools at (please read the notes for each slide carefully – this material should not be delivered lightly; NB – there is also a similar resource on livestreaming at the same link).

There are links to further reading in that presentation and in the relevant section of our Hopes & Streams report into our findings from the pupil survey. Why not have a look at the LGfL Healthy Minds resource, too for self-harm advice for parents, staff and pupils.

And as ever, let us know what else we can be doing to support in this area.




Hopes & Streams report – 40,000 pupils told us about online safety…

…and boy, did we learn a lot. For the full report, video overview, or to read about a specific theme, head to Meanwhile here on SafeBlog, we are starting a series of posts on themes from the survey. 


Mental health / self-harm and livestreaming were major themes, and there was plenty to learn about violent and sexual content and sharing, online pornography, friendships, bullying, and who children want to talk to for advice). Just to be clear, there were many positives – it’s not all doom and gloom.

But in this first post, we thought it would be useful to skip to the end and reproduce our recommendation for schools’ next steps. Hopefully they will inspire you to want to go back and read the report to find out more and why we say. This is a list from the conclusion section of the report:

  • You told us parents are key, and the survey confirmed this, so drive parental engagement with a focus on this key statistic: 73% of pupils trust their parents on online safety (but only half talk about it with them more than once a year). Make this the basis for all work with parents in this area – it is worthwhile
  • Use the resources and lesson ideas linked to each thematic section of the report – there are plenty of direct links, or use the filters at to shape teaching & learning and support staff and parents
  • Use the quotes and statistics dotted throughout this report as discussion starters in class and in staff inset –taking just one quote and statistic from a specific section will give you plenty of potential for a valuable discussion
  • Remember the distress caused by violent videos, especially towards animals, which is an area that adults often do not identify
  • Investigate the role of peer programmes for pupils to support each other – ‘telling a friend’ was the second favourite option for talking about the worst things that happen online
  • Consider predator behaviour (and talk to parents about why it matters for the youngest children) regarding coercing children to change clothes on camera – remember our statistics show how this affects the very youngest children
  • Focus on behaviours rather than lists of ‘bad apps’ – predators hop around apps, so scare stories just lead to a false sense of security
  • Discuss latest screen time concerns with parents and share sensible advice on balancing activities rather than limiting time
  • Address technology addiction by asking pupils what they think about the nearly 1 in 3 who admitted finding it hard to stop using devices to have a break
  • Refresh teacher, parent and pupil awareness of helplines for advice and support
  • Incorporate real-life examples from normal adult life into online safety education – admit that we can get it wrong too
  • Make sure the youngest pupils know they should talk to a trusted adult about anything that gives them ‘a funny feeling inside’
  • Provide staff refreshers on key documents such as Keeping Children Safe in Education and the UKCCIS Sexting Guidance
  • View and share materials on understanding the motives for self-harm in the mental health section, considering how to talk about the issues without ‘giving ideas’

There were recommendations for government and industry too, and of course for us – what do we plan do do as a result of this survey. Head to and read the report to find out more. Next blog – mental health and self-harm bullying.


Help your children and pupils ‘Own It’ with the BBC

For the LGfL DigiSafe team, a clear online-safety resource highlight of 2018 so far has been the launch of BBC Own It! And the best bit? It’s not a single resource, but an entire portal – aimed at and very much ‘in’ the voice of young people. We met Own It Editor Dave Howard and asked for his top tips for parents and teachers taking a first foray into the uber-cool world of Own It.

Here’s what Dave had to say (scroll to the end to find out our favourites, and let us know yours, too):

“BBC Own It is designed to speak directly with children (mostly aged 9 to 12) about things that affect their lives online. However, much of our content can just as easily be used by parents, teachers and other professionals to start conversations with young people about staying healthy and happy in digital spaces. If you’re keen to explore the site in more detail, here are ten links to get you started:

 1) Gaming: should you take a break?

Linked to the WHO recently classifying gaming addiction as a mental health condition, this video (and associated text advice from psychiatrist and Own It advisor Dr Aaron Balick) could be used to kick off a conversation about gaming habits, and being aware of lines they could cross.

 2) Doggie Diagnosis

We are building the Own It Scottie Dogs, Will and Ainslie, into a brand that helps us find humorous ways in to tricky topics. In this short comic animation, one of our furry friends starts to worry that he has a serious illness – after doing a ‘Doggle’ search of his symptoms. 

 3) The best and worst of life online

This hard-hitting film was a central plank of Own It’s launch on Safer Internet Day back in February.  It can be used to start a conversation about how children and teens are themselves in control of how they conduct themselves online, and how the words they choose to use online – nice or nasty – can impact others.

 4) “Be curious, be smart, be kind, be you”

This spoken-word piece was workshopped and composed with kids by former European and Scottish Slam Poetry champion MiKo Berry. It celebrates the internet as the greatest invention of modern times.  But it also explores how, just as cars need seat-belts to go fast, we need to consider how we keep ourselves safe online. 

 5) How manky is your mobile?

This video is a deliberately different take on digital well-being.  Our phones and devices go with us everywhere, including to the bathroom (yes, even yours – don’t deny it!) This video, starring CBBC and Radio 1 presenter Katie Thistleton, shows how many gross things could be living on our phones.  

A ‘top five’ of Own It resources just wouldn’t cover it – so here are five more I couldn’t go without mentioning:

6) Have you seen bullying in online gaming?

A video, in which kids talk about their personal experiences with bullying in online gaming. How did it make them feel? It is a great platform to get kids in classrooms to talk about their own experiences and share them with an adult.

 7) Being smart on social media

This is one of a series of films shot with the casts of CBBC shows, and stars actors Millie and Tallulah, who play Millie Inbetween and her older sister. It’s intended for introducing kids to social media for the first time – and asks them to prioritise security settings, and not giving away too much information about yourself.

8) Are you parents savvy on social media?

Part of our “Managing Parents” collection. Team Own It vlogger, Scola Dondo, and her mum talk about their shared life online and what it’s like posting things to social media that your parents can see. This video is important in getting kids to realise that it’s not awful being friends with your parents online and, actually, you can help each other.

 9) 8 Ways to Spot a “Sharent” listicle
When we showed this page to a group of children in Glasgow, they cheered and gave it a standing ovation.  This collection of memes can be used by children to start a conversation if they feel their parents or carers are sharing too much of their lives online.

10) Get Urgent Help or Advice Here
This is the most important page on the Own It site.  Please, if at all possible, make the children you work with aware of it.  It’s a fast-track to places they can go to get help when they need it – from Childline to CEOP to dialing 999 in an emergency.”

Dave Howard, Editor of BBC Own It

PS from the LGfL DigiSafe Team – three of our favourites so far are:

  1. Number 3 above (The best and worst of life online) – great blend of the awful and the awesome
  2. When your parents are on social – different way to start a parent session, thinking about who exactly has no filter – adults or children, and…
  3. This great series where Kids Explain concepts to their parents – genius!

Tweet @LGfLDigiSafe and let us know yours…




Keeping Children Safe in Education 2018

The Department for Education’s flagship safeguarding document is ‘Keeping Children Safe in Education’ or KCSIE for short. It has been updated for September 2018, with valuable new additions that all schools need to consider. Designated Safeguarding Leads and school leaders and owners need to read it all, but here is an introduction to some of the changes that will have an impact on everybody.


Wherever I go to talk to teachers about safeguarding, I like to ask if everyone at their school has read Part 1 of KCSIE. The guidance is statutory, which means that schools must follow what it says, and within the introduction it points out that Part 1, the first 15 pages of the document, is to be read by all staff. That doesn’t mean all teachers, but all staff – in the office, in the site team, in the canteen…

Annex A covers specific forms of abuse and safeguarding issues, and should be read by leaders and anyone in school who works directly with children. If you think this isn’t the case in your school, why not stop reading now and go and set the wheels in motion for this to take place now. Not to mention Annex C about online safety…


There is no way around reading the document itself, but to help you get to grips with the changes at a glance if you are well accustomed to the previous KCSIE, we have put together a tracked changes document here, and Annex H of the main document (scroll down this page to see the 2018 version) includes the changes in table form.


One key new area is the addition of Part 5, which refers to and summarises the new DfE advice on sexual violence and harassment in schools. It is worth reading the full document as it is very helpful, with case studies, actions and guidance for a range of issues. The text stresses that schools must take all forms of sexual violence and harassment seriously and explains how it exists on a continuum.

Behaviours sometimes considered as ‘low level’ must be treated seriously and not allowed to perpetuate. Schools need to take action on a range of issues and the document makes specific reference to behaviours which are often tolerated or treated as minor misdemeanours, such as bra-strap flicking and the careless use of language.


Many schools, especially those in London will now be more familiar with ‘county lines’ than at the time the 2016 document was published. KCSIE now gives a useful summary of the phenomenon in Annex A with key factors involved in this type of abuse.

There are many other changes, small and large. For example, there is new mention of contextual safeguarding and how we need to work on understanding the full picture to understand children’s lives and the overall safeguarding jigsaw. Schools are now recommended to hold at least two emergency contacts after cases of deaths in the home of the single contact themselves.

In online safety, new resources and signposting has been added, as well as mention of topics to cover such as fake news, pornography and racist extremism. The role of the school designated safeguarding lead is defined in KCSIE; this 2018 edition of KCSIE adds the words ‘including online safety’ after safeguarding and child protection, highlighting how the DSL has lead responsibility, and online safety is inseparable from safeguarding. This is a really helpful addition, highlighting that whilst it’s fine to have an online-safety lead other than the DSL or deputy DSL, there must be a very close working relationship and support lines between anyone in this position and the DSL.


This post is just a summary of a few points in the new KCSIE to get you started – there is not room to cover everything here, so make sure you go to the document itself on (and remember the tracked changes version might help the first time you read it). For other perspectives, picking out other key points, why not check out Andrew Hall’s update page and video here, an NSPCC overview here, or Kenty County Council’s online safety in KCSIE overview here.

Safeguarding is everybody’s responsibility, so get your colleagues reading! September’s CPD updates for all school staff always include reminders and new aspects to look out for, but the new KCSIE gives us an opportunity to return to these issues and cover new areas to help make the next academic year a great one for keeping children safe.





Gangs support


This post is a copy of the links shared via the LGfL DigiSafe newsletter a few weeks ago, but due to popular demand, I’m reposting here a roundup of resources and advice available for schools on knives and gangs. Do let us know what else you would find useful.

KnifeFree campaign and resources

You may have seen Home Office #KnifeFree adverts in the past few weeks. There is an accompanying website: has videos of people who have moved away from or resisted gangs, includes risks, consequences, facts, info for parents, reporting advice and further links. The videos may be more suited to Secondary pupils, but there is lots that could be useful in Primaries for teachers and parents.

There are also POSTERS which might help as discussion starters around school.

The NSPCC has a dedicated gangs page which will be useful for all colleagues. There is advice and guidance and a great video to share with staff / parents.
Make sure parents are aware they can call the NSPCC hotline (0808 800 5000) for adults concerned about a child for advice on issues including gangs:

Here is a government advice leaflet for parents and carers (it’s from 2014 but still offers useful advice). 


Poster from Brent council with signs to look out for – meant for parents but great for the staffroom too.


And there are two great advice pages designed for young people from Childline on Gangs and Gun and knife crime

Finally, below is a list of further links that may be of use / interest.

But first, we are looking at what other support we can offer to schools in the area of gangs, in particular in relation to social-media-driven conflict, aggression and violence. If you have ideas or particular needs in this area, hit reply to tell us so we can best provide the support  you need.



Education for a Connected World

If you are reading this, you probably already have an interest in online safety, digital resilience, digital citizenship, or whatever term is currently en vogue in your setting. But what about the people around you who don’t? How can we prepare children and young people for a connected world if we are a lone voice or expected to do it all ourselves? Unsurprisingly, we probably can’t. But…

Education for a Connected World framework

If only there were a way for teachers to work together across the curriculum to ensure progression in digital resilience without starting again or reinventing the wheel, and allowing everyone to get on board, including those who may not have a natural affinity or interest, as well as those who simply feel ill equipped to do so…

You’ll be pleased to hear that’s exactly what there now is, with the new UKCCIS digital resilience framework Education for a Connected World. If you haven’t heard of UKCCIS, it is the UK Council for Child Internet Safety and well worth finding out more about here, especially after the government’s Internet Safety Strategy highlighted its future strategic role. (disclaimer: we at LGfL DigiSafe sit on the education working group which developed the framework).

It is a progression framework with four nominal age ranges – EYFS -7, 7-11, 11-14 and 14-18 – but of course the ‘stage, not age’ principle applies and you can apply it as appropriate. For example, specialist SEND schools may well take a different approach, and this may be the case in many mainstream schools as well. But the point is to offer a baseline to plan against and help you to consolidate learning and identify progression. The framework is divided into eight broad themes covering behaviour and knowledge, protection, development and respect for others, norms, and laws:

  • Self-image and Identity
  • Online relationships
  • Online reputation
  • Online bullying
  • Managing online information
  • Health, wellbeing and lifestyle
  • Privacy and security
  • Copyright and ownership

Each strand and age range has ‘can do’ statements in the style of a typical class learning objective, ranging from this for the lower ages: “If something happens that makes me feel sad, worried, uncomfortable or frightened I can give examples of when and how to speak to an adult I can trust” to this for upper secondary students: “I can describe the laws governing online sexual content.”

Some of the topics covered by the statements are challenging, such as addressing online pornography for secondary students. But they are in the framework with good reason, both in terms of real-world necessity and legislative landscape (the introduction of relationships and sex education, and the upcoming introduction of age verification for online pornography). Incidentally, on that, there is some support for teachers at A different kind of challenge for many colleagues might be teaching about new technologies, such as artificial intelligence, which is mentioned in several strands. But again, it’s there because of the reality of the world we live in, let alone the world as it will be when our pupils leave school in a few years’ time.

As we move towards summer and the inevitable reviews and rewrites of curriculum plans, schemes of work and so on, it’s a great time to engage with colleagues on this issue and have this document at the ready to support you as you do so. I bet your colleagues will be surprised to discover how many of the statements they already cover. And where you don’t, plenty of organisations are working to provide resources to support you. Many of which you can find at

What we saw today at the LGfL TRUSTnet Conference

Un drôle de blog this time – this is just a round up of the links and ideas and pointers shared today in my sessions at the LGfL TRUSTnet conference.

So apologies for the list, but…it’s a list! Also being shared on the newsletter – sign up at

Some top viewing tips (not made by us):

Some top viewing tips (from us)

Find out about all the following topics with videos you can use for CPD in your schools with colleagues, all from the DigiSafe conference and open access here.

  • Livestreaming from CEOP
  • Prevent and radicalisation from various specialist speakers
  • Safeguarding in PSHE from the PSHE Association
  • Online pornography from the NSPCC and BBFC
  • Sexting from the expert who wrote the guidance, and a real-life sexting case study

If you are interested in proactive technical monitoring solution, click here just to let us know current interest as it was a long time ago that we originally asked.

Reminders of LGfL services:

National / official documents

Staying in touch with us


  • If you want us to email you (one-off, you won’t get added to a list) when the report of the pupil survey comes out, you can sign up for that here.

Our key links

EDIT – 02/05/18

  • Laura Higgins joined us from UK Safer Internet Centre’s Professional Online Safety Helpline. Her presentation is here.

Gambling in schools – what are the odds?

Have you heard of loot boxes or skins trading? If not and you are thinking an article about gambling among schoolchildren is not for you – gaming, sure, but not gambling – then you might want to think again and read on.

When we are keeping children safe in schools, issues which affect adults are also recognised as affecting young people. It is widely accepted that sexual exploitation or abuse, alcohol or drugs need addressing by schools because they affect young people, whether directly or indirectly via family members. Yet gambling is often left out of prevention campaigns and PSHE planning, seen as an adults-only problem.

Yet the Gambling Commission’s 2017 annual report found that 12% of 11-16 year olds had spent their own money on gambling in the past week (compared to 16% who had used alcohol, 5% cigarettes and 3% illegal drugs). This probably conservative estimate should be enough in itself to make us sit up and pay attention, especially when you consider how safeguarding concerns tend to trickle down school year groups to ever younger children.

Whilst the tell-tale signs of drug or alcohol use can alert schools to a problem, especially directly after their consumption, online gambling can take place on a phone in seconds, under a desk at school or under the covers at night. That has been the case for several years now, and is only becoming easier and more prevalent. And so the chance to recognise a problem and offer support with addiction is all the more important.

That’s why Demos, Gamble Aware and the PSHE Association worked together to conduct research on preventing gambling harms for young people which has led to an academic report and new PSHE resources for schools launched this week.

The resources have been piloted and proven in terms of increasing awareness and are well worth a look; they focus on critical thinking, managing risk, developing resilience, looking out for your friends and knowing where to go for support.

Ring any bells? Yup, just like pretty much every other online issue. So have a look and see how you might incorporate these into your curriculum. They are for Secondaries, but as ever, they are worth a look if you are in a Primary to see what might be of use. The Demos research has all manner of interesting findings, such as the fact that children’s exposure to gambling adverts has tripled between 2005 and 2012.

But what about those loot boxes and skins? Children and young people are at the forefront of experimental gambling, often in a twilight zone where users don’t know they are gambling and unscrupulous providers sometimes want to keep it that way. And if you don’t know you are gambling, how can prevention messages reach you?

You can read an overview of skins and skin betting from ParentZone here, but in a nutshell you can purchase or win new items or outfits or weapons in a game, and these can be traded or wagered on the outcome of another game (sometimes for hundreds or even thousands of pounds), leading to large wins…or heavy losses.

Loot boxes are reminiscent of game shows of yore, where the gamesmaster asks contestants to trade their winnings for the contents of a mystery box, which could hold the keys to a house, a car, or nothing. Today, these now appear as paid add-ons in games that young people play. You pay to open a box and maybe win something, or then again…

So whilst it wouldn’t be a good idea to introduce the term loot box to your class or ask if they have ever traded skins and get them interested in something they hadn’t heard of before, you may want to keep an eye and ear out when you talk to them about the games they play online. Gambling – it’s not child’s play!

Ready to speak to SID on February 6! Safer Internet Day is just around the corner

It’s always the first online safety date in the calendar but sneaks up on us every year, so here’s a (hopefully useful) round-up of what’s going on this year for Primary and Secondary schools. This year, the theme is “Create, Connect and Share Respect: A better internet starts with you.”

It’s worth a quick reminder of why it’s important. We don’t want schools or pupils to only think about online safety on one day per year, and we don’t want to detract from the vital flow of positive messages that teachers work on all year long. Nonetheless, we are fully behind Safer Internet Day as a celebration of all that is good about the internet and the digital world our children and young people are growing up in.

What’s happening in my area?
If you want a certificate of participation for your school in Safer Internet Day (and why wouldn’t you!!), why not register what you are doing on the official site? On that same page there is a UK map to check out physical events taking place in your area.

Are there official SID Education Packs?
Yes of course, as every year, the amazing Safer Internet Centre team have put together Education Packs and SID TV films which focus on online relationships and digital empathy. These include lesson plans, activities, and films tailored for 3-7s, 7-11s, 11-14s, 14-18s and for parents and carers. Lots to get your digital teeth stuck into

What about LGfL DigiSafe?
This is the point at which we normally point to CyberPass, our online-safety diagnostic tool which all LGfL TRUSTnet schools have access to – find out more here. It’s great for taking a snapshot of competencies to inform teaching & learning.

But actually this year we are focussing all our efforts on running a major UK-wide pupil survey with the NSPCC. It’s open from Y3 (recommended from Y5) to Y11, with slightly different questions for Secondaries, and is a great activity for Safer Internet Day – but fear not, it’s open for the whole of February so you don’t have to do it on SID itself. It doesn’t cost anything to take part in the survey, but you do need to sign up first. Find out all about it (including all the work we have done to make sure it conforms to safeguarding and data-protection best-practice) at

Whatever you do this Safer Internet Day, we’d love to hear about it. Tweet us at @lgfldigisafe (or share with us on Facebook) and let us know how it goes – and remember the hashtags #SID2018 and #SaferInternetDay too!

Demos launches technology briefing on child sexual abuse imagery

Last night I attended the Westminster launch of a new ‘Technology Briefing Series’ from cross-party think-tank Demos. The first paper in this series was a joint effort with the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) and covered the topic of Online Child Sexual Abuse Imagery (CSAI). The briefing comes while the Government is currently considering responses to the recent green paper on the Internet Safety Strategy, which contained a number of proposals for social media companies in particular “to do more”. The event included a panel discussion with Jamie Bartlett, MPs Yvette Cooper and Vicky Ford, Karim Palant from Facebook and Andrew Puddephatt, the new IWF Chairperson.

The event and the report celebrated the fact that IWF has been instrumental in ensuring that less than 0.1 percent of CSAI content is now hosted in the UK, down from 18 percent in 1996! Alex Krasodomski-Jones from Demos, said: “Technology policy is challenging: it tests our ability as a society and democracy to grapple with difficult problems and find sensible solutions. Demos is committed to improving the public conversation around these issues, to bringing expert voices to the debate, and to help inform difficult decisions. In partnership with the IWF, we are calling for a better dialogue between politicians, experts, the media and the public around technology, its impact on our lives and our democracy. In doing so, we hope to encourage good solutions to complicated issues.”

But as Jamie Bartlett pointed out, whilst it is a hard truth to accept, “the problem is not going to go away”. You can view the full report here, which is definitely worth a read. It tells how the fight against online child sexual abuse content is being won in the UK, but the global threat remains as big as ever.

The speakers at the event yesterday highlighted how the fight against CSAI images is very different to the fight against radical or extremist text, images or videos, largely because of the lack of clarity and legal frameworks and definitions. Yet at the same time, it was pointed out that there were clear lessons to be learned from this area, for example, on how processes and technologies developed by experts at IWF and Microsoft ensure that an image or video, once flagged, cannot resurface (Yvette Cooper MP pointed that this the case currently for certain far-right material).

There was plenty of food for thought from the panelists that I will be digesting over coming months in terms of hate speech and radicalisation. For example, Yvette Cooper pointed out that due to automatic ‘learning’ from our online searches, “In some cases the algorithms are doing the radicalising”. Andrew Puddephatt: “Algorithms don’t do context, it’s important a human analyst makes the decisions about what should or should not be removed. Those analysts should be supported and accountable.”

And as Jamie Bartlett pointed out, “It’s not always radical content that radicalises people; it can be very ordinary things”.


Enough from me now – head over to read the Demos report here!

Wanted: Secondary schools to feed back on Internet Safety Strategy

Update – 23/01/2018 – this consultation is now closed

Government’s consultation on the Internet Safety Strategy Green Paper – opportunity for secondary schools to participate (via telephone dial in)

LGfL TRUSTnet held a series of successful teacher focus groups with the Department for Digital, Culture, Media & Sport (DMCS) before Christmas in London and Liverpool to garner opinions on internet safety in schools and to feed back on the proposed internet safety strategy. The official online consultation is closed, but there is still an opportunity (Secondary schools only this time) to share their challenges and opportunities and help shape government strategy. Please share! The following text from DCMS has all the details:


The Government’s Internet Safety Strategy published on 11th October and looks at how we can make Britain the safest place in the world for users to be online. We want everybody to be able to access the benefits of the internet without harm, and this means working together with a wide range of stakeholders to develop safer online communities and empowering citizens to manage risks and stay safe online.

We know that schools play a critical role supporting children when they have suffered online harms. The Strategy sets out how DCMS and DfE will work together to ensure support for schools on these issues. We recognise that companies also have a responsibility for conduct and content on their products and platforms and are therefore setting stretching objectives for industry on tackling online harms.

We’d like to get school staff (i.e teachers, teaching assistants, wellbeing staff) views on the full range of proposals in the Strategy and are therefore conducting focus groups across the whole of the UK. Schools will be credited for their contribution to the consultation (/not referenced, as preferred).

If you would like to take part please contact, stating your role, school & availability to attend one session via telephone dial in from the following:

    • Friday 19th January 4-5pm
    • Monday 22nd January 4-5pm
    • Wednesday 24th January 4-5pm
    • Thursday 25th January 12-1pm


Sexual violence and harassment in schools

The Department for Education (DfE) has launched new guidance for school leaders, safeguarding professionals and governing bodies/proprietors on peer-to-peer sexual violence and sexual harassment.

Sexual violence and sexual harassment between children in schools and colleges” is also referenced in the proposed new Keeping Children Safe in Education document (see this previous blogpost) for September 2018.

The guidance stresses that schools absolutely must take all forms of sexual violence and harassment seriously and explains how it exists on a continuum, so it is essential that behaviours sometimes considered as ‘low level’ are treated seriously and not allowed to perpetuate. Schools need to take action on a range of issues and the document makes specific reference to behaviours which are often tolerated or treated as minor misdemeanours, such as bra-strap flicking and the careless use of language.

The LGfL DigiSafe team was proud to contribute to document’s development whilst it was being drafted, and we think the new DfE document provides clear guidance and helpful case studies to show schools what to do in certain situations. The following is taken from a summary of the document given in KCSIE.

  • Schools and colleges should consider the following:
    • It is more likely that girls will be the victims of sexual violence and more likely that sexual harassment will be perpetrated by boys.
    • Schools and colleges should be aware of the importance of:
      • making clear that sexual violence and sexual harassment is not acceptable, will never be tolerated and is not an inevitable part of growing up;
      • not tolerating or dismissing sexual violence or sexual harassment as “banter”, “part of growing up”, “just having a laugh” or “boys being boys”; and
      • challenging behaviours (which are potentially criminal in nature), such as grabbing bottoms, breasts, vaginas and penises. Dismissing or tolerating such behaviours risks normalising them.
    • Children with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND) can be especially vulnerable. Disabled and deaf children are three times more likely to be abused than their peers. Additional barriers can sometimes exist when recognising abuse in SEND children (see paragraph 96 in Part 2 of this guidance).

The document will be updated again in response to the KCSIE consultation for September 2018, but already provides very useful guidance for schools and colleges. Its release is timely support for schools, coming shortly after two other useful documents on similar issues were published, by Childnet and the National Education Union/Feminista respectively: ‘Young people’s experiences of online sexual harassment‘ and ‘It’s just everywhere – a study on sexism and how we tackle it‘.

Both those studies are useful for schools to read: Childnet revealed that in the last year alone, 25% of 13 – 17 year olds had experienced online rumours about their sexual behaviour, 24% had received an unwanted sexual message or image, and 10% had been pressured to share a nude image of themselves. And the NUE report revealed that a quarter of all secondary teachers witness gender stereotyping and discrimination at school every day, and an even higher number (27%) did not feel confident about knowing what how to respond to a sexist incident at school.

Against this background, the publication of clear guidelines from the government on dealing with all levels of sexual violence and harassment can only be welcomed as a very positive step. So have a read and see how you can adapt your policies, procedures and strategic responses to incidents to begin making a change today.

Proposed KCSIE update for September 2018

The Department for Education (DfE) has launched a consultation to find out what schools think about proposed changes to the key safeguarding document Keeping Children Safe in Education (KCSIE), which will be revised for September 2018.

The current KCSIE document came into force in September 2016, bringing in various changes such as new specific mentions and an appendix for online safety, as well as ‘appropriate filtering and monitoring’. The Department for Education is now consulting on proposals for the next update, so it is worth having a look and having a say before the consultation ends just before February half-term.

You can find all the relevant documents and links on this DfE page. These include:

  • An overview document of the consultation and changes (at the bottom of the page in ‘related docs’)
  • The proposed new KCSIE document itself (also in ‘related docs’); Appendix H on p92 shows a useful list of changes
  • A link to an online survey to gather your views

To help see the changes at a glance, we have also compiled a Word document that shows tracked changes between the two versions, which may be particularly useful for those who are familiar with the 2016 version.

The consultation is also being used to find out what you think of the excellent new DfE guidance also published at the end of last week on sexual violence and harrassment in schools (more on that here). Make sure you read that document, as it is very helpful and will help you make a difference in this key area, which is covered in the new KCSIE with several paragraphs dedicated to the issue.

The online safety section has not been changed; however, DfE specifically ask for suggested amendments as part of the consultation, so if you have views, now is the time to share them.

Check out one of the links above to find out more about key changes that will affect your safeguarding practice.

Supporting parents who want to film, photograph or stream school events

Why not show this to parents before you start this year’s Nativity play at school? Food for thought…

It’s that time of year again where parents will be filing into the school hall for a Nativity play or other Christmas extravaganza, devices at the ready (if you are reading this at another time of year, the same applies to sports days, trips, plays and other school gatherings on school site and beyond).

But is your school ready? Have you made it clear to parents what your rules are to keep children safe, conform to data protection rules, and ensure everyone can enjoy the experience without having to peer around a tablet the size of a bucket? And have you considered that someone who you think might be filming the event could actually be livestreaming it? The mind boggles, but in a world where seemingly everyone videos and shares everything, it happens.

So here is a sample letter you can edit and share with parents (remember to make it fit your policies). You might want to take a more informal approach and share the above video – but be sure to add a couple of lines to make clear what your rules are, what you expect and why it is important to respect the rules.

As the letter explains in more detail for parents, there are very important reasons for restrictions which parents need to understand – or else they will think we are killjoys or just luddites who don’t understand the selfie generation. Namely:

  • Child protection – looked-after children often have restrictions for their own protection that hopefully very few parents and staff will know about; others may not be officially flagged but have family backgrounds which mean that sharing images in an identifiable context could put them in danger.
  • GDPR (the new General Data Protection Regulation) and the new Data Protection Bill. Sharing could otherwise potentially incur fines for contravention of data protection rules. Photos are personal data, after all (NB they become ‘special category data’ only when used with biometrics).
  • Some families may object for religious or cultural reasons, or simply for reasons of personal privacy – we must respect this.
  • Sharing images of children in school uniform helps identify them so should not be done unless avoidable.
  • We encourage young people to think about their online reputation and digital footprint, so we should be good adult role models by not oversharing (or providing embarrassment in later life – and it is not for us to judge what is embarrassing or not).

You might take one of the approaches described in the letter, insisting on personal use only, or providing staged opportunities at the end; you may decide to ban all recording devices and be done with; you may ban recording but hire a professional to record the event or a dress rehearsal to share with parents later (costs money but better quality and less disruption). If you do the latter though, just make sure you aren’t the ones falling foul of the rules – are parental permissions for school photography up to date?

Whatever you do, make sure everyone knows the rules, and remind them that apart from anything else, school events and activities are a lot more enjoyable for all concerned without a sea of phones and tablets; memories are a lot more likely to stick than a grainy image is to be regularly viewed. As it says at the end of the letter, “Remember, your child wants to see you looking at them, not at your phone”.


Want to find out more?

All I want for Christmas is… online

Christmas is coming, the geese are getting ipads, please put a bitcoin in the live-streamed hat… It isn’t long until schools can pack up for a couple of weeks (although it will feel like you’ve never left when you return in January). Here’s our whistlestop tour of how you might be able to support parents before and after Christmas.

Let’s cut to the chase and get the negatives out of the way. Things can go wrong, in all kinds of areas, so it’s good to know where to go for support. If you share two links with parents in a pre-Christmas newsletter (or any other time), you might want to share and The first is an overview of all the links we have collated that can support parents with online safety and safeguarding, on all the range of issues I will cover here; the second has all the major helplines, hotlines and advice lines – you don’t need to wait until things go wrong.

The Ofcom Children and Parents Media report came out at the end of November; as usual it contains many revealing statistics. For example, mobile phone ownership – not just use – has more than doubled among 5-7 year olds. And 96% of all children between 5 and 15 now have access to the internet at home. Yet 69% of parents do not use the baked-in parental controls and filters.

It’s a fair assumption that Christmas won’t lead to a drop in either of those numbers. So what better time to remind parents that there is plenty of support for them regarding settings. Two top tips from our parent resource collection are Internet Matters for how to turn on parental controls for your home broadband with any of the big providers, and call the NSPCC / O2 Parent Helpline on 0808 800 5002 for help setting up new mobile devices.

It’s not just about controlling, blocking and filtering, of course. Knowing what your child is doing online and offline is invaluable, and there are tools to help you with that. At we have selected guides to the apps young people use, to help you tell your CoD from your Roblox. As ever, it’s more about what they are doing, not where. And whilst the guides will help with that, the best way to find out is through conversation. Easier said than done? The Internet Matters tablet app will help with that, guiding parents through  the right questions to ask.

Christmas is a great time for guilt trips about excesses, but it’s not just eating or drinking but also screen time that often tops the list of parenting worries. So maybe a good time to remind parents that screen time isn’t the same as screen time. Any ‘official’ limits are fairly arbitrary in fact as there are so many factors that define what’s good and what’s bad. If you want to delve into all the research, start with Professor Sonia Livingstone’s work here. But for a great overview to share with parents, use this flyer: “It’s time to end the screen time scare”. And back that up with the Children’s Commissioner’s new idea of a Digital 5-A-Day – that’s your Boxing Day hike over the moors justified!

All of that, and I haven’t even mentioned livestreaming, gaming, sexting and all the other justified worries that parents and schools might be dealing with over the festive period and next year. Click on the links to find out more on those topics, and remember if it’s all getting too much, there is help for school staff too – get in touch with the Professionals Online Safety Helpline from the Safer Internet Centre for help and advice on specific cases too.

Merry Christmas – I won’t be sending you a card; I’m using an app this year…

UPDATE 11/12/17 – Now head over to this blog post from the Kent CC team for more useful links and a letter to send home to parents with advice on new tech they might buy for their children for Christmas.

Internet Safety Green Paper

The Department for Culture, Media & Sport (DCMS) recently published a green paper (consultation) on the government’s new internet-safety strategy, as part of the ‘Digital Charter’. The education world normally keeps its eyes peeled for key documents from the DfE but pays less heed to those from other government departments, but this one will have a big impact on the future of online safety in homes, businesses and schools, so is very much worth a look.

The 62 pages of the green paper are very much worth a read and can be found here. The government is looking for responses to the consultation, and it would be good to hear as many voices as possible from the education sector. So if you haven’t the time, find someone in your organisation to have a look through the lens of your situation and needs.

The consultation is for organisations and also for individuals (in fact, there are many more questions for individuals than for organisations), so why not try and get parents at your school to have a look and have their say. The questions make sense without reading the green paper, so encourage them to have a say to help shape their children’s online lives – and why not suggest parents answer the questions together with their children as a great conversation starter?

As for the green paper itself, the principles are (lifted verbatim):

  • What is unacceptable offline should be unacceptable online
  • All users should be empowered to manage online risks and stay safe
  • Technology companies have a responsibility to their users

…and the priorities (again, verbatim):

  • Setting out the responsibilities of companies to their users
  • Encouraging better technological solutions and their widespread use
  • Supporting children, parents and carers to improve online safety
  • Directly tackling a range of online harms



Now nobody is going to argue with those aims or priorities, so you might be tempted to say “So what?”. It is great news that the government is looking to boost internet safety, but it will impact on many areas of life, so have a look and make sure you can have a say. Here are just some of the things that stood out for me (not a comprehensive summary, not an official LGfL response, and indeed some might not even be good things from your perspective):

  • Great to see lots of mentions of and recognition for amazing organisations like the Internet Watch Foundation and other Safer Internet Centre partners, voluntary organisations, public bodies and private corporations too. They do amazing work, so it’s great to see it flagged in a key document like this. Some great positive reminders that all is not ill…
  • UKCCIS is losing its second ‘c’. The UK Council for Child Internet Safety will no longer be just for children’s safety, but for internet safety in general. We currently sit on the Education Working Group of UKCCIS and look forward to seeing a more prominent role for this organisation which does amazing work already (e.g. sexting guidance for schools and much more besides).
  • UKCIS (née UKCCIS) will “streamline and target education and advice on online safety for parents” – that is great news and we can help there too (e.g.
  • The social-media levy and code of practice are on the way. There has been lots of discussion about whether the levy is a good thing or not (some say of course; some ask if it might discourage organisations from the efforts they already make, which are not inconsiderable?)
  • A new Online Hate Crime Hub to streamline efforts to combat hate online.
  • The government will be looking closely at online gaming. Given the stories that we regularly hear of young children playing violent video games at age ratings far above their age (18 games aren’t more difficult, they are given the rating for similar reasons as 18 films), that is also worth looking at.
  • Connected toys and the internet of things are to face scrutiny as well (to find out more about some of the risks and developments in this area, have a look at the blogs from John Carr, who keeps a close eye on these things).
  • A reminder that Relationships Education is coming for Primaries and Relationships and Sex Education for Secondaries. PSHE is still a ‘maybe’, but hopefully…
  • Other controversial topics get mentions too: revenge porn, fake news and age-verification of pornography (which is coming in next year).

It’s good to see a mix of education, legislation and self-regulation – some you may like, some you may not. But have a look and see or say what you think…

Safe Online in 2017

In case you haven’t seen it yet, we published the new ‘Safe Online in 2017 – A State of the Capital Report’ a few weeks ago. The termly report (read the full report here) is based on data from two terms’ use of the CyberPass online safety diagnostic tool by London schools in the spring and summer terms of 2017 (1 January to 31 July).

Over half a million questions were answered: encouragingly, 74% of which correctly. The data in this report reveals an interesting snapshot of pupils who are seemingly well acquainted with education messages about dealing with friends and what to share online, but raises the question of why it is not always translated into practice. Read the overview news article about the launch here, or read and share the full report here.

Relax – it’s only a catfish!

It's only a it?Do you know what catfishing is? I must admit that I didn’t until I saw someone reading an article on the Tube the other day about someone being “…catfished aged 14” (NB: not one to open in front of a class). My shameful ignorance of the term extended to not knowing that there is an MTV show of the same name and that it is such common parlance that there were efforts to bring in an anti-catfish law in parliament.

But once I had worked out what it meant – namely, to use someone else’s photo to trick your way into a sexual relationship – it got me thinking about the dangers of careless language for safeguarding young people. In the article that triggered all this, catfishing was actually a reference to attempted child sexual abuse via grooming and CSE.

Give it a cuddly name though (I know, you wouldn’t cuddle a catfish), and all of a sudden it is normalised and is easy to shrug off as harmless fun. To be fair to the newspaper, it was a direct quote, and let me be clear that I intend no criticism at all of the victim, as the word has become a cultural reference (just one that I didn’t know).

Although I am probably inviting accusations of “political correctness gone mad”, isn’t this a good example of why language matters? Last week’s post on SafeBlog was about roasting, which is essentially bullying by another name; the Rotherham sexual abuse scandal was in part allowed to perpetuate because the girls involved were ‘engaging in risk-taking behaviours’ rather than described as vulnerable, at-risk children. And only this week there was news of a (admittedly disgraced and imprisoned) US congressman sexting a child, which, although it sounds bad in itself, is not so clear-cut as soliciting child sexual abuse imagery.

Sexism and racism campaigners have long campaigned against terms and expressions that only serve to consolidate prejudice. If you aren’t convinced, ask yourself when a politician would talk about a tax burden, and when would they say contribution instead? They would choose very carefully, and with good reason – words shape the way we think about a subject…a lot. The linguistic term for this is framing, and there are plenty of fascinating books and research on the subject should you want to get academic.

Either way, I don’t think it is an overstatement to say that what we say and the words we use shape what we think, and can therefore play an important role in keeping children safe.


PS – For handy signposts to information about child sexual exploitation, see

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To roast or not to roast?

Roasting“Roast me!” is a phrase I would normally only use when pretending to be a potato, which doesn’t happen all that often.

Those of you over a certain age probably feel the same (aspirations to vegetable imitation notwithstanding). But for young people, its alternative meaning can have severe consequences.

It’s not at all new (this article was posted over a year ago and it had been around for a couple of years before that), but it seems to be coming round again.

What is it? Put simply, posting a photo or video of yourself alongside the hashtag #roastme and thereby inviting friends and strangers alike to tease you for it. Harmless banter…after all, they literally asked for it? Or something more nefarious?

We mustn’t forget the following: one person’s teasing is another’s bullying, and the same words can always have a different impact on us depending on who said them; these things can quickly spiral out of control; sometimes people haven’t actually posted the photo in question but ‘volunteer’ others; and asking to be roasted is clearly harmful and self-destructive in some cases (psychologists have likened it to self-harm where the user really is seeking abuse).

So what to do? Whether you use this half-baked term (pun very much intended) to talk about the issues or just think about all the instant social media putdowns we are all partial to now and again for a laugh at others’ expense, the issues are the same.

We could do worse than encourage young people (and adults) to do two simple things: stop and think before you click, and then ask the perennial self-reflective question “how would it make me feel?”


That’s enough from me, so why not head over to now for signposts to a wide range of resources and organisations that help schools and families with bullying issues.

Kids need more/less time online [delete as appropriate]

Here are two headlines from this morning’s Guardian (other news outlets are available):

“Stop children bingeing on social media during holidays, parents urged”

“Encourage children to spend more time online, says former GCHQ head”

Both are equally interesting stories, and both worth a read. But which one is right? On the face of it, they sum up neatly the conundrum that parents face and how difficult it is to boil down advice into a pithy instruction. What are we supposed to do? Cut back or encourage? Screentime – good or bad?

As so often, the headlines don’t tell the whole story. I reckon that if you put Anne Longfield and Robert Hannigan in a room together (the Children’s Commissioner and former GCHQ boss, respectively), they would be in broad agreement about many issues. Anne Longfield’s excellent new ‘Digital 5 A Day‘ isn’t all about digital detox, albeit the ability to put down your device is a key health factor and very much part of the equation. But 1/5 of the digi-pie, she says, is to spend time online to ‘get creative’.

This year, we at LGfL DigiSafe plan to look at new ways to support young people who feel they have to be ‘always on’. There is definitely scope to improve education and resource in this area. But how about that ‘get creative’ pie slice? Let’s encourage the potential young people have to make the most of the devices and apps at their disposal to make music, videos, augmented and virtual reality scenes, plays, artwork, stories, blogs, vlogs, games, podcasts, and the like, or learn about the languages, sports and countryside just before they put down the pad and head out to enjoy them in the flesh.

Perhaps we can have our digi-pie and eat it…

GDPR and social media ages – why does it matter

Here’s a holiday treat – rather than a blog post from me, a recommendation of a fantastic blog by internet safety luminary John Carr.

John’s latest blog post is about the minimum age for using social media, which is currently up for debate because of GDPR, the new data protection legislation coming into force next May.

You might wonder why that matters – for one, if the minimum age were 16, then sexual predators could claim to ‘not know’ they were targetting an under-age child, because anyone on social media therefore “should be” over the age of consent.

Anyway, rather than reading something from me this week, head over to read John’s latest post (not his first on the matter!), to find out more.

Hip, hip, hypocrisy!

On the one face; on the other...
Two of my many faces…

This is an online-safety post with no happy end or tidy solution. Not so unusual in itself, but this time it’s because we as adults are the problem. Now, that isn’t so unusual in itself of course – adults are famously bad digital role models for the children we work with / look after / care for / parent. You did know that, right? Hmmm…

But while our digital lives and footprints snowball out of control (mixed metaphors are allowed at the end of term), and our behaviours morph to suit data-guzzling corporations without us even noticing, why do we stick so rigidly to the same messages and rules for children and young people that we would never dream of adhering to ourselves?

Hands up who has ever smiled a secret smile when receiving lots of birthday greetings on Facebook? Would you be a bit miffed if you didn’t get any? And of course if it’s a birthday with a zero on the end, we expect even more (whilst pretending coyly that we don’t want anyone to know). But how does Facebook know? Surely we don’t enter our birthday on a social network, let alone allow ‘friends’ we’ve never met to see it? No, no, and thrice no! As for our date of birth – don’t be ridiculous!

So why do we keep telling young people never to enter such details on their profile, then act surprised when they do? All the while tutting at the naked narcissism of youth!

“That’s different! It’s a trade-off we are prepared to accept. We can look after ourselves but our children can’t.” Of course there’s an element of truth there (although not that much), but when you consider that effective online-safety education is about behaviour rather than understanding the app of the moment, then you realise that what we adults get up to is quite important too.

And before we rationalise that all away, why not reread this post and replace the date of birth example with something else we ‘would never do’, like post things we wouldn’t want our grandmother or employer to see…etc…etc.

Something to ponder over the summer break.

Let’s talk about sext!

Sexting Article ScreenshotAnother day, another series of sensationalist sexting headlines (nothing to do with selling newspapers, honest!). Here’s one of the more balanced ones from the BBC which is based on the latest figures from the police. Not wanting to become another voice shouting “Aaaagh, sexting!”, here are a couple of things to bear in mind when thinking about the issue of sexting in schools:

  1. If you are a school, general advice isn’t enough. Yes you can find all kinds of great educational resources online, and lots of sources will tell you what to do if you have a sexting incident. But there is one single document for schools from UKCCIS with what you need to do, how, in what order, and when you should or should not report to the police – you don’t always have to. If you haven’t heard of the UK Council for Child Internet Safety, it is a key body with representation from the DfE and other government departments.
  2. There’s sexting and sexting. So when you read scary articles about it, you need to bear in mind that lots of young people regard a risqué chat as sexting. Imagine what then happens when someone hears about this but that person thinks sexting means exposed genitals. And then tells someone else who would think a bikini shot is a sext…or maybe it is for a child but not for an adult…or it is if it is sent privately but not if it’s posted on Facebook. Yes I’m muddying the waters, but that is the pond we are in. So yet again, we can’t get around the fact that to address sexting we need more talk, not more tech.
  3. Did you know that very few young people talk about sexting anyway unless they’re talking to an adult who first used the word?

If you want to read a bit more about sexting, the image that I have added to this post is from an article I wrote for one of our magazines and may be useful to share with staff when talking about sexting.

Otherwise, head straight to to find all the best resources (from a wide range of providers) to use with pupils and parents (handy before the summer holidays), and of course that key UKCCIS reference document (which includes great CPD activities for September safeguarding updates).

Right, now back to the headlines…

Don’t panic – it’s only Snap Maps! Then again…

Don't panicIf you’ve been on social media today, you may like me have been inundated with people sharing Nadia Sawalha’s video warning parents about Snap Maps, the new tracking functionality (for want of a better term) baked into the latest Snap Chat update. The 2 minute video has been viewed over 6,000 times in less than a day, so it’s obviously causing a lot of concern.

And indeed it should! If you have only read this far to see whether I plan to support or pooh-pooh the concerns, the answer is…both. As usual, life in today’s digital world isn’t quite as simple as all that.

We first flagged the issue when we shared this BBC article ten days ago. As I wrote, “Not for the first time, geotagging adding unnecessary layer of risk”. Snapchat is incredibly popular among schoolchildren (and the age limit of 13 is often disregarded). In a nutshell, the new functionality allows friends (or everyone in the whole world, or nobody at all, depending on your settings) to see where you were the last time you used Snapchat, where you have shared photos or videos publicly to ‘Stories’, to view them and see where they were posted. And when I say where, I mean exactly where, on a highly detailed streetmap.

The privacy concerns are obvious and are all the more concerning because Snap Chat is so prevalent among young people. I had a quick look and it did indeed seem rather scary on several levels.

But there is good news. For a start, after featuring on mainstream news a few weeks ago, online-safety news is being shared by a celebrity (now gone up to 7.5k views just while I’ve been writing this) and lots of parents who might not necessarily be reached by traditional channels are stopping to think about what their children are doing online. That can only be good news – and this is a great time for schools to offer online-safety support to parents (often a seemingly thankless task).

Secondly, on this particular issue, it is perfectly simple to resolve and to change your Snapchat settings (here’s a handy link from the Snap team to share for that).

But given everything I’ve just said, we do need to guard against a couple of things: we mustn’t be fooled into thinking that working out what to do about Snapchat is enough (or that banning it, which I am not suggesting anyway, solves the problem). The same issues exist with a myriad of apps: remember Instagram has geotagging turned on as a default for most users; so we need to fashion a thoughtful approach to educating young (and old) users. Sounds tricky, but it can be done. Just don’t panic!

One more thing though – there is a reason companies develop these features: they are popular with young people! So let’s be aware of the issues, but stay positive to make a digital difference.


PS – Still worried / interested / want to know more? Head to for supporting resources and guidance or point parents to 

Great news for young people wanting to report an image of themselves

I went to the NSPCC Conference today – a great event from a great organisation. As you can imagine there were many interesting takeaways; one that struck me in particular was news from the Internet Watch Foundation and Childline which will make a massive difference to young people wanting to remove an explicit/nude image online.

IWF can only enforce the removal of such images where the child in question is under 18. Where age is not obvious even to experts, young people wanting to report an image of themselves have previously needed to engage with authorities to prove their age, which can cause distress and put them off wanting to report.

But now the IWF and Childline are using an age verification app called Yoti (other such apps exist; this is not an endorsement) to help young people under 18 report images and prove their age at a click (or a few anyway). They can use the app to scan their passport or other ID, compare with a selfie and therefore add age verification to any report. Great news that will change lives.

Reports can be made either via the IWF or Childline website – spread the word!

  • Remember though to follow the UKCCIS guidelines for every element of how schools should deal with incidents of sexting. Access it and other sexting resources via *

** A variety of reporting links for online safety and safeguarding issues are at **

Channel 4 investigation into and

If you didn’t see this on Channel 4 News last night, it is well worth a look. Very worrying to know what goes on on a couple of leading providers. Share with staff and parents!!

But please remember, these dangers do not just exist on two platforms, so we must not be tempted to vilify these two and ban childern from using them, only to then sit back and relax. That would be a very dangerous sense of security that would endanger our children. We need to educate children on the risks which are everywhere.

And as John Carr says in the interview within the Channel 4 piece, predators often use one app to make initial contact and then ask the child to move to another. The dangers move with them!

Watch the Channel 4 piece here